"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lock Down Part 2

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Whenever the next lockdown rolls around it will be quite different. There will be far less drinking and a lot more strength & conditioning. I don't have the same wiggle room that round one of lockdowns afforded me this year. I will be staying busy mentally too, always attempting to learn and read a lot. I've already got it all lined up: supplements I'll take, exercise equipment at home, books I will read, people I will be keeping in touch with, podcasts I've got lined up to listen to. It's only a matter of weeks until these "highly effective" lockdowns sweep the planet again and all of the COVID enthusiasts post bogus statistics. Every. Freaking. Day.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bmxcetera said:
Whenever the next lockdown rolls around it will be quite different. There will be far less drinking and a lot more strength & conditioning. I don't have the same wiggle room that round one of lockdowns afforded me this year. I will be staying busy mentally too, always attempting to learn and read a lot. I've already got it all lined up: supplements I'll take, exercise equipment at home, books I will read, people I will be keeping in touch with, podcasts I've got lined up to listen to. It's only a matter of weeks until these "highly effective" lockdowns sweep the planet again and all of the COVID enthusiasts post bogus statistics. Every. Freaking. Day.
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Agreed this is what I plan to do if it gets to that point.

However, I don't think it will.
 
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The rallies here outside at the Legislature stopped in the summertime.

Everywhere here is mandatory to wear a mask now.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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