"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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vachir

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scenario: 1st date got nude girl got down to panties. saying "i cant i cant i cant" and then started asking how many girls ive had. calling me a player etc. i got really dodgy. she wouldnt really go past it after 3 backoff-retry-warm up-deny i decide to let it go. so i let her leave she left kinda frustrated and pissed off. i guess she was looking to **** just digging for me to say that ill promise to date her.


in hindsight id prolly not let her keep questioning me. and jsut go cold and retry

please advise on these kind of situations
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Try kissing her cl!t through her panties, work around and under the edges. Go back to kissing her all over.

If that doesn't work: Just stop everything you're doing and lie down. Push-pull, let her come to you. Try it again when she comes over and re-initiates with you.
 

vachir

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yea ur right with that. i froze and re-warmed it up. a little closer each time. but i guess in hindsight i should just shut her up and keep "moving" instead of trying to "talk" to her.
 
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