want2learn
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I have a situation I'd like some feedback on.
There's a girl I used to date who I see as a friend now. She's a cool girl, who used to have the hots for me. As a quick background, we went out on a couple of dates, but I didn't feel a strong sexual spark with her. I gave her a kiss goodnight on our dates, but never escalated. I think she got the message: LJBF.
I still see her from time to time now as friends. But, I still sense some sexual tension. Yesterday, when we went out, we were talking about booty call situations while we were downing a few beers.
I told her I won't have sex with girls unless I get to know them. She counters that having sex with no strings attached is the best sex. She also playfully mentioned that she'd like to see me get on the bar top and strip for her. Also, she always picks up the tab when we go out. (we're co workers so neither of us is hurting for money).
Does this mean she's still willing to jump in the sack with me? I don't feel a strong sexual attraction, just a moderate one. One thing I've noticed however, is that when I go out with her, I always notice at least a few guys who stares at her so hard, you'd think she was the last woman left on the face of the earth. So maybe I'm underestimating her value or being too picky.
Do you think she is still into me sexually based on her comments and actions?
There's a girl I used to date who I see as a friend now. She's a cool girl, who used to have the hots for me. As a quick background, we went out on a couple of dates, but I didn't feel a strong sexual spark with her. I gave her a kiss goodnight on our dates, but never escalated. I think she got the message: LJBF.
I still see her from time to time now as friends. But, I still sense some sexual tension. Yesterday, when we went out, we were talking about booty call situations while we were downing a few beers.
I told her I won't have sex with girls unless I get to know them. She counters that having sex with no strings attached is the best sex. She also playfully mentioned that she'd like to see me get on the bar top and strip for her. Also, she always picks up the tab when we go out. (we're co workers so neither of us is hurting for money).
Does this mean she's still willing to jump in the sack with me? I don't feel a strong sexual attraction, just a moderate one. One thing I've noticed however, is that when I go out with her, I always notice at least a few guys who stares at her so hard, you'd think she was the last woman left on the face of the earth. So maybe I'm underestimating her value or being too picky.
Do you think she is still into me sexually based on her comments and actions?