I have no fear approaching girls and getting numbers, etc. What I am worried about is telling them I still live at home once we're dating. One of my friends said to me "No girl your age is going to date a guy who lives at home, dumb@ss." I'm 21 and trying to save for a house.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Living at home - a problem?
- Thread starter Snowman23
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