"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lithuanian and Russian Women

The Mad Ghost

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So I Number closed this Lithuanian and half Russian chick today at outside her Aerobics class. She gave me so many IOI's I couldn't keep up with them. Signals left right and fvcking centre! Eeye-winking, strecthing infront of me, smiling etc etc......

I said If I don't approach her, I'll be gutted for the rest of the evening and be on So Suave complaining! .......................So I talk it up with her, turns out she is 25 years-old. Looks about 19, slim tender body, does Taekwondo and Dance classes, she actually works there. I thought she was just a goer.


So she was abit hesitant to give her number out, since she worked there .............all in all I got the close. Now I don;t want to celebrate as this will get me off my goals, so my question is (BIGJIMBO) Hint Hint!!! :wave:

Are Russian Women usually THIS forward? I mean, the IOi's are exceptionally heavy, none I've seen before, I walked pass her and she asked my name, all this forwardness? Is it either she has been around the block and back or am I just that good looking? Because personally, my game was melting, everytime I looked at her bright Blue Eyes...................I just got the number and got the hell outta there.

Thoughts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mikeyb

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I've known a few Russian girls (2) and yes, they're usually pretty aggressive. One acted like a nasty slut who'd done it all but according to her best friend she was actually a virgin! Be careful with them though, I've heard that they tend to be real predators.
 

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Agree with mikeyb,but i actually find them refreshing after being used to western women.
 

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Huh, you guys are dealing with immigrants. They don't count. I probably banged them all years before they ever got to the West. Trust me, I wouldn't get close to an immigrant. If you can't afford to get to Lithuania or Russia then stick with fat Brits and Americans. If you were in a place like Lithuania (say Kaunas) you wouldn't be asking for help on this board! No you wouldn't.

Hate to tell you this, but NEVER compare Lithuanians to Russians. Lithuanians pretty much HATE Russians. Long story, but even though they can speak Russian they still HATE all things Russian. Pretty much the only other East European group they would not mind being associated with is Latvia. Latvians pretty much REALLY HATE Russians. Problem is that their capital (Riga) is majority Russian! So you have a divided town of Russian people and Latvian people. The Soviet Union definitely screwed up places.
 

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Don't get too excited brother. Getting a number doesn't mean a thing. You are getting into a negative mentality already by even making this thread. Next thing you know you won't even get to f___ her and you are going to be feeling down for some time.

Better to have a mentality of not caring about them rather than bragging about getting their number.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Mad Ghost

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f283000 said:
Don't get too excited brother. Getting a number doesn't mean a thing. You are getting into a negative mentality already by even making this thread. Next thing you know you won't even get to f___ her and you are going to be feeling down for some time.

Better to have a mentality of not caring about them rather than bragging about getting their number.
Bragging, NO, NO........ I just found it odd that the IOI's were that much coming from a Blonde, bBlue eyed Lithuanian/Russian chick, you hear stories and such that they aren't recepitive to making the first move.
 

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I used to hang out in the Russian district of Philadelphia (I'm not Russian at all btw) and I came to realize that Russian/E. European chicks either love you or hate you. There's like no in between. It's great for gaming because you know instantly whether one is worth your time gaming
 

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WhitePimp said:
I used to hang out in the Russian district of Philadelphia (I'm not Russian at all btw) and I came to realize that Russian/E. European chicks either love you or hate you. There's like no in between. It's great for gaming because you know instantly whether one is worth your time gaming
Uh, those were mostly Jews. Not Russians. There are no real Russian communities in America. Plus, immigrants are not the same. Like going to Southern Brazil and finding a Ukrainian town and thinking that the people act like what you see in Ukraine! No way. They are Brazilians first.

Seriously, you boys need to travel. America is America.

P.S. You guys are so clueless that you probably don't even realize that there are large towns in Southern Brazil that are made up of mostly ethnic Ukraines.
 

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BigJimbo said:
Uh, those were mostly Jews. Not Russians. There are no real Russian communities in America. Plus, immigrants are not the same. Like going to Southern Brazil and finding a Ukrainian town and thinking that the people act like what you see in Ukraine! No way. They are Brazilians first.

Seriously, you boys need to travel. America is America.

P.S. You guys are so clueless that you probably don't even realize that there are large towns in Southern Brazil that are made up of mostly ethnic Ukraines.
Uh, no. Try traveling through Northeast Philly and it's pretty Russian. Stores have Russian names, and the bars/clubs are packed with all Russian/Slavic speakers. Not to mention a sh!tload of Orthodox churches, and no sight of any Temples. Get your facts straight Comrade.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bustleton#Present_day
 

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BigJimbo appears to be a american hating troll so wouldn't count on him being a super accurate source of information.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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