“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Listen to that Inner Voice

Galactus

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I'm not gonna waste a lot of time with this one.

I screwed up pretty bad with a girl recently, doing things I knew I shouldn't be doing. Too complimentary, too touchy-feely, too available, etc. There's no good excuse, I knew better. She kicked me to the curb. All along I knew I was screwing up. But I ignored the little voice in my head that was telling me that. I was having too good a time to pay attention.

I haven't seen her since then, and it's because I finally decided to pay attention to my better judgment. I'm not gonna grovel, I'm gonna be a man and move on.

Now I'm at various stages with four other chicks. I don't know what's going to happen, but I'm playing things cooler. I know better than to keep acting like such a chump. This time I'm listening.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

trickynick

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Good for you! A lot of times guys will mentally rationalize their chump behaviors often to the point of thinking their actually not being chumps when they are.
 

GREAT WHITE SHARK

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Originally posted by galactus:
I'm not gonna waste a lot of time with this one.

I screwed up pretty bad with a girl recently, doing things I knew I shouldn't be doing. Too complimentary, too touchy-feely, too available, etc. There's no good excuse, I knew better. She kicked me to the curb. All along I knew I was screwing up. But I ignored the little voice in my head that was telling me that. I was having too good a time to pay attention.

I haven't seen her since then, and it's because I finally decided to pay attention to my better judgment. I'm not gonna grovel, I'm gonna be a man and move on.

Now I'm at various stages with four other chicks. I don't know what's going to happen, but I'm playing things cooler. I know better than to keep acting like such a chump. This time I'm listening.
I think it relates to discipline.
You know that what you are doing is wrong, but you keep doing it. DISCIPLINE. That is a big fish to catch, but once you hook it, you are in.



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SHout GO TO HELL B.ITCH! for those who deserve it.
 

DJStudent

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I'm glad you saw this before it happens again. What's funny is that the same exact thing just happend to my friend. He really got touchy and feelie and at first she was receptive, but then it got to much. She just came to me one day and said, she can't stand him anymore, and that they were going to break up on the next date. I saw this coming a mile away, but my friend was too stubborn to listen. What's screwed up is that now she's attracted to me.
 
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