"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm busy reviewing all the threads that I've listed here. Field reports are very good. I'm practising flirting with women out there and I'm getting less and less tongue-tied each day. I will say something that's the most stupidest, lamest, silly opener in order to open a girl -- I'm learning to let myself out rather analyzing myself out of opportunities.

I'm feeling very happy right now that I can just interrupt and open women out there -- big psychological relief.

As I continue reading these threads, then it will interact with my subconcious mind, and I'll see women differently when I go out there since I may see opportunities that weren't there before.

Today, I asked a girl I was talking and asked her what she was planning to do later today. This is a more aggressive flirting style. (dbot style almost -- except he'd follow with an f-close if she was free while I'd just eject and make up an excuse since that's too intense - but it feels good to get close to trying a social stunt like that) Reviewing threads with other insights on innoscious statements that could introduce the prospect of sex into conversations.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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