"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJKondor

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this might sound wierd but does anyone know how to get rid of crusty lips, mine are always sore and the skin is really dry
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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rookie_donjuan

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I got this lip moisturizer by neutrogena at the drugstore and it works for me. Try it.
 

chim_chim

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When you wake up in the morning, just get all the dead stuff off there. You can soak a rag in warm water and then leave it on your lips for like a minute, then all the dead stuff will come right off.

Other than that, just apply chap stick every few hours for the rest of the day.
 

DJKondor

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thx for the advice, i tried the using a damp, warm cloth and wiping my lips with it in the morning, it seems to help, im gonna try and find that moisteriser.
 

Vronski

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I got myself a colorless lipstick in a local drugstore. very convenient

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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