"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Limiting beliefs exercise

Jager_Master82

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I got this from one of David D's videos. I think this can really help guys in changing the way they think about themselves and reframe negatives into positives. First of all you pick your limiting belief, then you think of what causes this limiting belief, then you reframe it in an positive and honest way to change the way you think about it. Then finally you identify the internal state and reframe that. Heres an example, obviously this will be different for everyone.

Limiting belief: Im too short to attract women

What causes limiting belief: I believe women are not attracted to short men

Reframe: Think about a time in your life when you have seen a short guy with a smoking hot HB, think about short men you have met that exude confidence Higher Value and other alpha male qualities. Think about how these guys and many many others have not allowed this to prevent them from achieving what they want in life.

Internal state: nervousness, anxiety. Nervousness and anxiety can be reframed into excitement and anticipation.

This can work for any limiting belief a guy can have whether it be not tall enough, bald, doesnt have enough money, fear of failure etc. Hope this helps.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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