"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lifting Question for Diesel

WrEcKLeSS2000

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Hello Diesel, My question is how can I specifically work out gaining muscles, i have been doing reps with lighter weight 3 sets of 10 but strength but i still want to get muscles and get really big...Give me some specific things i can do....Right now my routine is....Chest/Shoulders/Triceps next day Biceps/back/legs, then back to chest routine and then bicep routine
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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daman01

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Dude did you read the sticky, all your questions will be answered there by diesel.
 
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