I have some questions about USA lifestyle, because from what I've read here it looks very different from where I live.
I live in Mexico, and in my last year of highschool. Girls here never initiate any kind of flirting, hell they rarely even initiate a conversation, and of course never even talk about sex or make sexual jokes. Plus everyone just hangs around with their group of friends like ever since elementary or junior high, and hardly open to anyone new. Now don't get me wrong, I have my group of friends, but I mean come on, I've known them for years, I want to meet new people. Everyone here is a virgin, at least as far as everyone knows, maybe there's a few people that are not virgins, but it is not known, being a virgin here at this age is the normal thing.
Girls are afraid of doing any of that, I think because the society is so hard they label them as sluts even if the only thing they do is make out with you. Oh and dates, if you are dating here, it is expected to be exclusive, even if it's only the first date! If not they see you as a player or a cheater or whatever. It's not like USA that you can just date a different girl everyday, and not getting looked at weird, or people losing trust on you.
Clubs, same here, when you go to clubs, I hardly see girls there on their own, and if there is, they're way ugly like HB4 and down, the decent looking girls are always with company, and it's very weird for a girl to grind with you, probably only if it's your girlfriend. Again, because society is way to harsh about that stuff here.
By the way, just clarifying, I'm not an AFC, I'm confident, I consider myself good looking, and I work out regularly, girls say I'm hot. But that is just the lifestyle that goes around here, and yes it's pretty depressing reading about USA lifestyles and sounds much more fun. As I said earlier I am in my last year in high school, I'm 17, and I'm seriously considering moving to USA for college, I think I might get permission from my parents if I get a scholarship or something like that.
So if anyone can help me out with information about good universities, to have fun, I've been told some universities (I.E. MIT) don't have too much of a social life. I'm interested in stuff such as Mechanic Engineer or Computer Programming, any information is appreciated.
Feel free to comment whatever you want to say or think about this here!!
And thank you for reading my post.
I live in Mexico, and in my last year of highschool. Girls here never initiate any kind of flirting, hell they rarely even initiate a conversation, and of course never even talk about sex or make sexual jokes. Plus everyone just hangs around with their group of friends like ever since elementary or junior high, and hardly open to anyone new. Now don't get me wrong, I have my group of friends, but I mean come on, I've known them for years, I want to meet new people. Everyone here is a virgin, at least as far as everyone knows, maybe there's a few people that are not virgins, but it is not known, being a virgin here at this age is the normal thing.
Girls are afraid of doing any of that, I think because the society is so hard they label them as sluts even if the only thing they do is make out with you. Oh and dates, if you are dating here, it is expected to be exclusive, even if it's only the first date! If not they see you as a player or a cheater or whatever. It's not like USA that you can just date a different girl everyday, and not getting looked at weird, or people losing trust on you.
Clubs, same here, when you go to clubs, I hardly see girls there on their own, and if there is, they're way ugly like HB4 and down, the decent looking girls are always with company, and it's very weird for a girl to grind with you, probably only if it's your girlfriend. Again, because society is way to harsh about that stuff here.
By the way, just clarifying, I'm not an AFC, I'm confident, I consider myself good looking, and I work out regularly, girls say I'm hot. But that is just the lifestyle that goes around here, and yes it's pretty depressing reading about USA lifestyles and sounds much more fun. As I said earlier I am in my last year in high school, I'm 17, and I'm seriously considering moving to USA for college, I think I might get permission from my parents if I get a scholarship or something like that.
So if anyone can help me out with information about good universities, to have fun, I've been told some universities (I.E. MIT) don't have too much of a social life. I'm interested in stuff such as Mechanic Engineer or Computer Programming, any information is appreciated.
Feel free to comment whatever you want to say or think about this here!!
And thank you for reading my post.