"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Life is for warriors

joekerr31

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guys,

just wanted to share some thoughts.so many folks are so concerned about getting their feelings hurt, getting cheated on, etc.

and i think this occurs because guys have lost their knighthood.

as men we are warriors.

we don't have to fear each other either. warriors have respect for one another.

now being a warrior doesn't mean you are omnipotent. in fact, exactly the opposite. it means you are human, yet you dawn your armor and march off to battle knowing that you may very well die.

but you do it because the glory lies in battle. there is no glory washing dishes and folding laundry. I'm sorry, but there isnt.

i work in the cut throat corporate world, and sometimes i think im holding on by my teeth with all the games and pressures of the day. BUT you know what, at the end of it all, I LOVE IT.

i love it because it tests me. i love taking on big tasks. I love swimming out so far into the ocean that others have long turned back.

i've come tot he conclusion that the only real point to life is to test yourself.

and that means sometimes you're going to go into battle and its going to be melee. its going to be confusing, and scary, and everything, but if you go into battle ready to die, nothing will distract you from your focus.

and when its all over and done you'll be left standing among the ruins - victorious.

we are all dying. each day is part of our death. we are in the battle right now. and the battle won't end until we die.

so be a warrior. look fear in the face and laugh. then grit your teeth and get in their and test yourself.

this is also why for the most part only other warriors will ever be able to truly share your experience of life. a woman is for after the battle. she might admire you, she might please you, but she will never truly understand you. only other warriors can understand you, because they are out there on the battle field with you.

Men rule this world and they always will. we are in a bit of strange days lately because there's this so-called equality going on.

whats happened with women joining the battle is that so many warriors dont know what to do anymore. when it was all men they could just let loose and fight the good fight. now they don't know what to do. they stand confused and dazed while a woman jams her sword through their armor.

if women want to come onto the battle frield, don't freeze up, treat them like you would other warriors. and watch as they scurry from the battle field in fear.

knights and warriors guys, find what you were meant to be. when you do everythign will feel right with life.

J
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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