Life in general not women based

[mv.89]

So I'm 24 and have student debt. I have a diploma in Finance , a designation in CIM (certified in management)

hopefully, I'll get a degree if not an Associate degree out of my Bachelors Program.

Experienced and more mature Men please share your learnings with us on how I take the next steps which will

dictate the rest of my life?

Things to watch for ? So I can be the Don Draper of real world (professionally)

1Invest myself to be ready for a job or Invest my energy and effort towards my own Business ?
2What kind of people should I learn from ? and what kind to avoid ?
3Any signs to judge who's a hater and who's a supporter ?
4Words of wisdom in general ?

What's my main and ultimate goal in life?I want Power > Status > Money > Fame and hopefully in that order.

All the feedback is welcome , even if you work at McDonalds please share your thoughts.

I'd say if you are under 25 or 24 please just listen and learn from the thread and do not pollute it, this isn't even

remotely for acquiring women.

Thank you all

 

[LiveFreeX]

What's my main and ultimate goal in life?I want Power > Status > Money > Fame and hopefully in that order.


Change your priorities. Make helping others your primary concern and all of that other stuff will follow. Get the millionaire mind cards, they are very helpful in installing good habits, also read the book.

Get a gov job and lay low... haha.

 

[Tiguere]

Power status money fame???? Bunch of narrow minded superficial fvcks.

HEALTH.... roof over my head food and clothing.

 

[mv.89]

LiveFreeX - what you are saying regarding helping others is noble but right now the help they receive from me would be of my status and not much. Like when I make donation and all they aren't much 20

bucks or so , but if I'm able to grow the help would grow too. What you are saying is good for a mindset (helping others) but I can only help others if I am able not when I'm worried about getting food for

myself.

 

[Justin Time]

Listen to the simple-minded bumble-fux chiming in. Anyway...you want what you want..so go get what you want. There's nothing wrong with wanting it. It's what makes you happy. I'm going for the same thing anyway.

Rules of code:

Motivation - Necessity
Networking - Necessity
Shoot for the star mentality - Necessity

Nothing will guarantee you power, riches and fame, however, you can use all the tools available to increase your chances of acquiring all your dreams. Take this from a man who came from a family so poor we couldn't even afford dirt. Where am I now? ..well, at 27, I'd say I'm doing pretty damn good.

Anyway, Seize the opportunities that come your way. Loyalty becomes second. Don't let your employers dump you, treat them like women you only want to sleep with. You dump them for the next best..just be careful about doing this. two to three years is good, and only do it if there's significant benefit increases. Benefits can be anything from better healthcare to a job you enjoy more.

Don't waste your time playing video games or chasing women..eventually, they chase you...if they aren't already. Then again, by that time their tail will have been on every cawk from this to the next block....

Lastly, and most importantly
Know what you want. Pick something, and focus on it. Stay with it and become good at it. become the best at it there ever was. Then make it your business. Likely it should be something you enjoy doing. If you enjoy it enough, you can make a market for it. Good luck. race you to the top!!


By the way, I had a few shots of hennessey, but my vocab/spelling/grammar is still good, so I think everything is legit!

 

[Atom Smasher]

What's my main and ultimate goal in life?I want Power > Status > Money > Fame and hopefully in that order.

All the feedback is welcome

You will attain none of these in andy great degree unless and until you prioritize providing VALUE to the world.

When you turn your thinking around and live to provide value, success beats a path to your door.

Don't live to obtain, rather, live to provide. Success will inevitably follow.

 

[Hexagram]

You will attain none of these in andy great degree unless and until you prioritize providing VALUE to the world.

When you turn your thinking around and live to provide value, success beats a path to your door.

Don't live to obtain, rather, live to provide. Success will inevitably follow.

Would you mind elaborating on this? Not quite sure what you mean here.

 

[Atom Smasher]

When you are focused on taking and aquiring, you develop a losing mindset, end up coveting more and more of that which you don't have, and find that posessions not only don't fulfill you but you actually end up despising them. They make you feel empty.

When you focus on providing value to the world, you subconsciously know that your money and other intangible rewards are well-earned because you are contributing to the betterment of mankind with whatever you have to offer the world. The world shows its appreciation by rewarding you with power, leadership and prosperity.

These things become inevitable rewards for a man who understands that his highest purpose in life is to provide value, not to aquire. The man who is intent on providing value cannot possibly fail if he perseveres.

Be a giver of your time, talents, and treasure, and the world will seek to reward you. Be a taker, and the world will resent you eventually and will take back that which it has previously given you.

The more I give, the more successful I become, and the sounder I sleep at night.

 

[mv.89]

Justin Time and Atom Smasher thanks

Both of you provide different perspective but very sound ones.

Atom- If I'm correct in understanding then I think you talk about Karma, do good unto others and good will befall on you too.

The only thing is that I am little bit embarrassed to admit it but I've been used a lot of times, even some of my closest acquaintances took money from me never to return it back. I've learned the

difference now but still not as smart as to judge a person in one look hence me asking from experienced people as to what signs to watch for. Soon I will be in a Management field full time where

stepping on others to succeed is a common thing and if I let others step on me all the time where will it get me? How will I grow and if I ain't growing I won't be able to help or provide others either.

I come from a culture where team goals outweigh individualistic goals but now in a culture where individualistic goals matter more than team. I come before US.

 

[Tiguere]

For those lost souls concentrating on acquiring acquiring acquiring

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NKzEc6fEpyI&feature=youtube_gdata_player

 

[evan12]

Every one should have empire , if you think in that mentality you will understand the world.
work to build your empire , it could be your business (I called it modern empire ) .
It is better to start a couple of years as employee to get some experience from big companies , and try gradually to build your own business .

Network , Socialize , Be Positive . Three things required for any successful business owner .

 

[Big Nuts]

This is what I have learned:

1. Achieve wealth and success before you settle down with a female. (Spin plates like a mofo tho)

2. Hide all of your wealth before you settle down with a female. (within reason)

3. Marriage for men is soul death.

4. Having kids is wonderful but can backfire on an epic scale.

*Have a buddy who pays $5200 a MONTH in child support. THAT'S TAX FREE GUYS!!! That is far more than 90% of the guys on this board even earn for a living. His fat ex wife takes that in every month while not working a single day while the kids are at school all day.

You see.....he achieved wealth and success, now he has kids he doesn't see and all his degrees, experience and success mean absolutely fvck all!!!!

He is a slave to his success...the more he earns, she petitions the court to get even more child support...there is no cap!!! He gets a big bonus from hard work?...she gets more child support and extra expenses increase. He works harder, she gets more.

He works harder, she gets more. Say that to yourself 100X next time you get oneitis!!

 

[mv.89]

For those lost souls concentrating on acquiring acquiring acquiring

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NKzEc6fEpyI&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Yeah one world order, bilderberg and all that is eye opening material but do you think living in your parents' basement and being a keyboard warrior shooting down others opinions would help you become a better person or help the society in return ? No, it wouldn't.

One needs to become Somebody for their voice/opinion to matter. Your username itself has no weight to it unless until we know this guy "Tiguere" did something for the society but if you ain't got anything to give back other than refuting opinions , you aren't helping.

 

[Tiguere]

Yeah one world order, bilderberg and all that is eye opening material but do you think living in your parents' basement and being a keyboard warrior shooting down others opinions would help you become a better person or help the society in return ? No, it wouldn't.

One needs to become Somebody for their voice/opinion to matter. Your username itself has no weight to it unless until we know this guy "Tiguere" did something for the society but if you ain't got anything to give back other than refuting opinions , you aren't helping.

Your first post resembles a psychopath.

So you want power??? Power over who??? Power over others??

You want others to worship you? You want to dictate over others???

You are an insecure little dipsh!t. And im sure youll end up in congress like all the psychopath that think like you.

 

[LorenzoVonM]

When you are focused on taking and aquiring, you develop a losing mindset, end up coveting more and more of that which you don't have, and find that posessions not only don't fulfill you but you actually end up despising them. They make you feel empty.

When you focus on providing value to the world, you subconsciously know that your money and other intangible rewards are well-earned because you are contributing to the betterment of mankind with whatever you have to offer the world. The world shows its appreciation by rewarding you with power, leadership and prosperity.

These things become inevitable rewards for a man who understands that his highest purpose in life is to provide value, not to aquire. The man who is intent on providing value cannot possibly fail if he perseveres.

Be a giver of your time, talents, and treasure, and the world will seek to reward you. Be a taker, and the world will resent you eventually and will take back that which it has previously given you.

The more I give, the more successful I become, and the sounder I sleep at night.

This * 1000. Great post!

 

[Jules_Winfield]

1. Working for others is the worst part of making a living. Even if you make $100k a year and lose your job, you will go right through your savings. Own a business or make a lot of money working for someone else. And I mean a lot.

2. I learned the most from guys who were confident in their knowledge of their professions. The confident guys will appreciate your interest in what they do, the insecure guys will exclude you as much as possible. If you see any insecurities in a man or woman, avoid them at all costs.

3. See above.

4. The world is corrupt! I didn't realize how much until the age of 32 and I had a hard time adjusting my thinking accordingly. I'm not saying this to get you down, I'm saying it so you can embrace the idea now. I no longer judge people for who I think they should be, I just work around who they are.

 

[PlayHer Man]

1Invest myself to be ready for a job or Invest my energy and effort towards my own Business ?

Invest your energy in gaining WISDOM. Aim to be wise beyond your years. Time is the most precious thing you have in youth. Don't waste it. The more wisdom you have the less mistakes you will make. Mistakes cost time, money and emotional energy.

So focus on educating yourself. Not just on academic and career related things, but on the WORLD itself. Study psychology to learn how people work. Study economics to learn how money works. Study history to see patterns in culture and society.

2What kind of people should I learn from ? and what kind to avoid ?

Try to learn from people who are where you want to be. Avoid know-it-all losers who run their mouth and claim to be "experts". You know.. people with get rich quick schemes who are not rich themselves. :crackup:

Also avoid toxic relationships of any kind. Even family. Life is too short to allow others to drain the positive energy out of you. That poster above who called you a Sociopath is a good example. Ignore bullies and crabs (when crabs are in a bucket.. if one crap tries to climb out.. the other crabs will drag it down).

3Any signs to judge who's a hater and who's a supporter ?

Very easy. Do you feel good about yourself when you are around this person? Do they encourage you and energize you? Do the feel more optimistic about life around them? If so.. they are a supporter.

Do you doubt yourself around this person? Do you feel less confident? Do you feel like you can't say certain things around them? Do you wonder if you can trust them? If so.. they are a hater.

Haters are not always brazen. Sometimes they pose as supporters while secretly hoping you fail.

What's my main and ultimate goal in life?I want Power > Status > Money > Fame and hopefully in that order.

Like others have said.. health should come first. Both mental and physical. If you're not healthy.. nothing else matters. So be kind to your body and it will reward you with loads of vitality and a sharp mind.

After health comes wisdom. I said this above. Wisdom in itself is power. What good is being rich if you don't know how money works? Many people win the lottery and end up penniless a year or two later. Same goes for big time CEO's, Doctors, Celebrities, etc. There were suicides during the 2008 economic collapse. The founder of Victoria's Secret committed suicide when the company reached new heights after his departure. Lots of people flying high in there careers for years end up laid off at age 50 and taking huge lifestyle dip.. sometimes into poverty.

Wisdom is one thing only DEATH can take away from you. Money, power, women, health, fame, respect.. it can all be taken away from you in a flash. But not wisdom.

Wisdom is the only true and lasting power you can have in life. The power to take advantage of opportunities and sense danger. The power to influence others. The power to survive almost any situation. Knowledge of survival tactics, cultures, food, weapons, etc. The power to seduce others. The power to rebuild. You get the idea....

A wise man is a powerful man.