"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Life Happens

countwoofoolah

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I have an interesting yet abstract story

Through my life I made 2 incredibly brilliant friends in High school (All gents school) with whom we chat every now and then but are always very fast and close friends.

I moved from South Africa to the UK to do a degree and live here. During my degree I have made friends , and two friends of mine , fast decent guys at the time , were my main party gents and on my course.

I was with a girl for a year and then she left me , usual boo hoo crap I got over and actually grew from it , and those guys were kinda there for me but wanted me to shut up about her (within reason).

Basically I got offered an amazing job and took it , these guys however have not said a single word to me in months and just flat out ignored my birthday - I used to always be the one who went and got hold of them.

Basically I have new friends , new life and im pretty chilled , I actually joined DJ as you gents have alot of good insight and its good to get an eye on stuff !!

What im interested in , is do you all encounter some of the same or am I just a giant d**k for wiping people off so easily ? I firmly believe that if people want to be in my life , the effort should come from their side as well , I just walk away otherwise.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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RedZone

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These kind of things happen all the time. People for whatever the reason is grow apart. Sometimes it's for the best.
 

like2jam

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True friends is almost always a two way street, in my experience. Friendship is a relationship too. If one person is doing all the work, then it's not much of a friendship.

Life is too short. Don't waste your time with one sided relationships, with women or with friends.
 
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