"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lies... Lies... Lies

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Well hmm.. so she loves you and wants you and Fs you... but.. she lies about things and have elaborate crazy stories to explain things that dont make sense..

That is the reality of females. Wether we want to face it or not its true.. 9 times out of 10 they have a couple other dudes in addition to you .. no matter how great your relationship is..

Ok so we say we wont worry or care about those things she lies about but the problem is that in a relationship you are investing time money and emotions.. I have a hard time being in a relationship and acting single but that is what we men have to do cause our girl is being chased and seduced constantly by many men... She will F some of them for what ever reason... and may or may not let you know.

I hate being single and i hate being in a relationship.. the only solution is to cheat like 99% of humans. But for men cheating takes work cause now you have to go through all the bs associated with pursuing women but at the same time keep your relationship working and hide your cheating.

My problem is that as i get older i have less energy and desire to play the games and i am becoming more emotionally vulnerable. but i know emotions make you weak so I surpress my desire for true love etc. but i hate that i have to do that....

22 year old HB8...lol i know thats asking for trouble... im expecting too much cause she tries to convince me that she is different but we all know females are only as different she you let that fool you into believing...

She lies so much that its silly and dont dare let her know you know she is lying cause thats a violation of her access rule she wil simple leave once she can no longer keep the upper hand by lying.. I know I know i have to do cost vs benefit ... is the cost of dealing with her bs worth the good things about her..??? maybe i guess .. or maybe not. its like when she is with me she is soo sweat but as soon as she leaves you just know she have other men but she keeps it all so well hidden in her house of lies..

She always says stuff is missing .. her glasses her clothes etc.. but in know she leaves these things at people places cause she leaves stuff at my place and it funny cause wen she leaves something at my place she knows but when its somewhere else she says it lost which means she cant tell me where she left it...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Damn DG

why don't you qualify these chicks? dawg you stay messing with the young chicks nothing wrong with that, but do you really think a 22 year old wants to "settle" you remind me of my natural buddy, always complaining that there ain't no chicks his age to "settle" with, but he stay boning 21 year olds like its nothing (he 33)you just gotta go a different venue

Keep spinning plates


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Solomon said:
Damn DG

why don't you qualify these chicks? dawg you stay messing with the young chicks nothing wrong with that, but do you really think a 22 year old wants to "settle" you remind me of my natural buddy, always complaining that there ain't no chicks his age to "settle" with, but he stay boning 21 year olds like its nothing (he 33)you just gotta go a different venue

Keep spinning plates


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yeh you are right.. I end up with 20 somethings cause the older women are married or feminists or have 3 kids or looking fro a rich man to take care of them etc.. and i tend to be at places where younger girls are. but yeh she is not stable at all just playing the game.. I do need to just go get some other females and stop expecting her to be what i want or need..
 

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DonGorgon said:
Well hmm.. so she loves you and wants you and Fs you... but.. she lies about things and have elaborate crazy stories to explain things that dont make sense..

That is the reality of females. Wether we want to face it or not its true.. 9 times out of 10 they have a couple other dudes in addition to you .. no matter how great your relationship is..
I completely agree. NEVER trust anyone, no matter how secure or perfect you may think a relationship is. ALL women can and will cheat.
 

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when your getting that kinda sh*t its better to walk because if you let her keep up this kinda BS IT WILL NEVER STOP ! get a new one because haveing a person in your life that continually lies to your face and you know it ..
1. you'll just end up hateing her
2. if you end up takeing it it will just degrade you
your better off kicking her lying ass to the curb and walk with your
selfrespect because in the end if you let it slide woman will just use you for whatever money , sex youll just be a desposable asset dont ever let anyone walk on you or use you. its just disrespectful relationships require mutal trust and respect or just take her for what she is use her for a f**k toy until you find one worthy of a longterm relationship and you never know she relizes you see her for what she is she might just snap out of it and act right just get used to the idea she's not worth giving your heart to make her earn that
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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she got a hook in you....:nono:
 

I'm in the Mood

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eaglez1177 said:
I completely agree. NEVER trust anyone, no matter how secure or perfect you may think a relationship is. ALL women can and will cheat.
You're kidding right?
All women cheat = title of this thread.
 

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Cowboy 556 said:
when your getting that kinda sh*t its better to walk because if you let her keep up this kinda BS IT WILL NEVER STOP ! get a new one because haveing a person in your life that continually lies to your face and you know it ..
1. you'll just end up hateing her
2. if you end up takeing it it will just degrade you
your better off kicking her lying ass to the curb and walk with your
selfrespect because in the end if you let it slide woman will just use you for whatever money , sex youll just be a desposable asset dont ever let anyone walk on you or use you. its just disrespectful relationships require mutal trust and respect or just take her for what she is use her for a f**k toy until you find one worthy of a longterm relationship and you never know she relizes you see her for what she is she might just snap out of it and act right just get used to the idea she's not worth giving your heart to make her earn that
yeh you are right but i got the upper hand cause she says she loves me all the time and i dont respond... she does cook for me and buy me gifts and groceries so thats cool, i am sort of using her but i wish i could love her...lol im just frustrated that i cant... i would be a fool to love her and a bigger fool to let her know
 

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Well update.. She dumped me to go back to her abusive X boyfriend whom she never broke up with at all..

She was trying to branch swing to me but I refused to tell her i loved hire or let her move in to my place. So she left me a voice mail saying that she has decided to go back to the guy who beat her up many times.

cant say im surprised..

Oh well back to the game...lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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