"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey man I am not disputing that it gets you the same result. I am sure it does it will turn her on I am sure. I am just saying there are better ways to go about getting a woman turned on.

How do I know? well for example after I make her *** the first time I will tell her "I am going to f*ck you in that ass" and she will say "yessss, ok blah blah blah".

All I am saying is that you get better results if you stimulate her in other ways. Think about it almost every guy does what you do she has probably had it 100 times. If you want to be a truly exceptional lay in her eyes you need to take a different course.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NickBe said:
How do I know? well for example after I make her *** the first time I will tell her "I am going to f*ck you in that ass" and she will say "yessss, ok blah blah blah".
Haha. I'm right there with you on that one. Hell, sometimes I joke with my friends that I have my tounge up a girls a$$ before I even say hi to her. =

NickBe said:
All I am saying is that you get better results if you stimulate her in other ways. Think about it almost every guy does what you do she has probably had it 100 times. If you want to be a truly exceptional lay in her eyes you need to take a different course.
That may be true, but I don't really care if I'm the best she's ever had or even if I suck in bed. I just want to bust a nut. I guess I'm old fashion that way.

I'm pretty sure though that I'm not the worst she's ever had. That was probably her first bf in high school.
 

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You don't? well then keep doing what your doing it should be fine. I like being the best she ever had it gives you unlimited power over her.
 

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So I met her up today, I know I shouldn't have.. I guess we're friends now but.. I still made out with her today.. I know I should just next this girl now before I get anymore emotionally involved. I should go out and meet other women. So tonight I'm going to try picking up other girls.
 
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