"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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let's be honest here about the power hot girls have...

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First, have you guys ever been the hot guy in the room. The smart guy in the room, the interesting one, the sexy one....at least for six months in your life?
You'll find that after every compliment, each one means less and less...you'll see that its OK for your mommy to fawn over you but not every girl you meet.
Secondly, you gained your attributes through real hard work and that makes you humble so you appreciate what the next guy us trying to do to get to your status and then you realize that anybody can do it with enough belief, so you maybe drop your standards and search for niceness or just plain good natured girls. Hence, genuine girls start appearing in your circle.

What I'm trying to say is...the physical powers that females have over some of us is that they took the sacrifice to be upper echelon. Deep down they started out as lesser but along the way, they got more smiles, more dates, more easy.

There's a chink in that armor and if you choose to go that same route of being the sexy hot guy you will see that guys have the same power, but from a mans standpoint you will also see that it really doesn't matter cuz it comes too easy in the end. Our bodies evolve sexy much faster... Less fat. More muscle.

Where we go slow is emotional. Like caring, empathy.
Their beauty was harder for them to achieve so they hold on to it more. Take away electricity and we are just normal mammals. Except males in almost every species are the good looking ones

Search it out...male lions, better hair, ducks, better plumage, there's more.

Im saying, looks is what most of these current girls are holding on to and its cute enough, but see it for the underlying reason.
There is no real power behind it, it is the guy that falls for it. And they instinctively know it, then play their game. It is a game.

I guess I should have just said. Don't fall for a girl until she constantly feeds you and fvcks you...but too many posts about dudes being lap dogs to attention addict make up queens without warrant.

Where are the pimping threads, the lay reports, the she's messing up my other lays, the shyt we are here to do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I heard a sentence from a smart looking gangster on a TV show, he said "Men should be peacocks".... I thort yer, but not all men, a high % if men are just white night drones. Since i was about 19 I tried to dress smart but my own style, worked out, grew my hair into a pony tail, wore 3 different CK fragrances..... I stood out at the gym, i stood.out at college, I stood out at the club..... I agree some men shud.be Peacocks, it takes balls.to stand out cuz white night drones will attack verbally/some times physicaly cuz they cant handle how different you look!!!
 

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All you have to do is have tits and a vag to be able to attract attention from men.
 

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Where are the pimping threads, the lay reports, the she's messing up my other lays, the shyt we are here to do?
they are becoming less and less because its becoming harder and harder to get women to stick to the rules

they just do whatever the f@ck they want these days they know they can get away with it

i dont have the time or the energy to try and outsmart these women anymore i take what i can get when i can get it and thats it

the buck stops there and i know a lot of men are starting to feel the same way
 

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Charms are deceptive, and beauty is vain.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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