Let this be a lesson to dj's

[Kevin Cass]

i recently had an argument with the current girl i am seeing.
it was over msn messenger. the conversation went like this. she told me she tried calling but i wasnt there. i said yea i was outside. she asked how were things and she asked me to go hang out with her friend. i said i might go if i am not busy. then we started talking more and more.

i asked her a question about her language. she couldnt answer so i said its alright il ask one of my other friends she will know how. then we started talking more. joking around. and i said a joke to her about my female friend.

i started to realize a bit of jealousy in her messages. i know it sounds strange but if u stay using msn messenger for a while u can tell how the person is feeling by there messages. other wise u can just ask them.

i said to her. why are you acting this way? im hinting some jealousy in your messages. there is no need for that if you know i am in a relationship with YOU and i already told you i am not a cheater.

all she replied was mmhmm. then i started talking to her more. every single message that she wrote to mee was 1 word. either mmhmm..yeah..sure..whatever..ok..

i called her out on it. i said Amy (lets call her amy to keep her anynomous) i noticed that you are talking to me like this after i mentioned that girl. It's not like i get jealous when u mention any of your friends. she wrote no... i said yes i have all the proof all your messages are either

mhmm..yeah..sure..whatever..ok.. she wrote but i didnt say anything. i wrote ur talking to me as if i did something wrong. i am not an idiot stop trying to play it off. she wrote. "well first off all i didnt say anything. what does mhmm,,,yea...nd o.k have to do with me being Jealous".


i wrote "alright so maybe u werent jealous" "but u are acting towards me in a way that would make me believe that" "it all started after i mentioned her. you were actually talking to me before that"

she replied with mmhmm...whatever..

i wrote i see. its alright you can keep talking to me like that. she wrote "lik wat ...how about i wont talk at all so ur happy "

i immediatly blocked her. i will not tolerate that. i am a dj i command RESPECT. she was disrespecting me by wasting my time. I tried to ask her why is she acting that way. She replied to me like if i was some boy that constantly begs for her screen name and only added me to her friend list out of pity. No. not happening. no way. she will realize that i am a true man and that my time is precious. i wanted to talk to her and she disrespected me, my time, and my relationship with her. i will not talk to her until she realizes what she has done.

SHE WILL LEARN TO RESPECT ME.END OF STORY

ALL YOU OTHER DJ'S LEARN FROM THIS. MAKE SURE THAT THE GIRL YOU WILL WANT TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH LEARNS TO RESPECT YOU. BECUASE IN THIS WORLD RESPECT MEANS EVERYTHING.:box:

 

[Chemistry]

Let this be a lesson to wannabe DJs...


I know you may think your behavior in this situation qualifies as being DJ but it really doesn't... besides the lameness of an argument over MSN, you went from having a girl you were seeing to having a girl that you had to block...

You're not a DJ because you blocked her... you fvcked up by taking her from a prospect or a fvck buddy to nothing... I don't understand why you would do that... you think you spotted she was jealous so kept pushing that point home until things got fvcked up... you played the chick game too, trying to make or making a girl jealous by bringing up another chick... seriously, that's lame high school sh!t - I never talk about that to chicks, if they act up I'll just holler at another chick rather than drop one into the convo to inspire jealousy...

 

[Kevin Cass]

i wasnt inspiring jealousy. i was just merely having a conversation with her. i dont know what ur trying to say "wannabe dj's" wtf are u talking about dude.

 

[sexxyback]

that story was retarded

 

[Chemistry]

The thread title... I added 'wannabe' because there really isn't a lesson for anybody who is a DJ within this thread


I don't see the achievement either... like I said you went from having a girl who you were actually doing something with to one you've had to block... girls are jealous creatures man... all of them... if you see something they're jealous about then keep pushing it and pushing it down their throat - in this case you mentioning one of your female acquaintances -then they're gonna act the way this one acted... you're burning bridges for no real reason

 

[Kevin Cass]

hmm ..i understand now

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

nice one man, i agree with u heart and soul.
Lean back and tell them to step down, cos in this world, men are in control, and as men should do, they will get respect.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

You massively overreacted. Basically she was testing you to see how you would react. Sure you took an extremely strong route. But it was too strong. Basically when girls start acting like that you have the advantage because its just msn. All you have to do is say "When your feeling more mature I'll start talking to you again." and then just don't respond to anything she says or act like nothing bothers you. In any situation getting mad shows emotion whereas apathy is truely the strongest route.

 

[Kevin Cass]

"When your feeling more mature I'll start talking to you again." and then just don't respond to anything she says or act like nothing bothers you. In any situation getting mad shows emotion whereas apathy is truely the strongest route.

ooo ok i understand what you mean. next time if this happens again. i will just act calm and tell her what u told me. thanks for the advice:rock: