"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Let the fire guide you, guys!

schttrj

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You know guys this is a post after a long time from me. I have been for quite a long time in this community to know the tricks of the trade and then see if it works or not. One thing really surprises me is that I was a pretty regular guy before I came here but now, I think I see life in a really different view. Something is radically changing and I am becoming positive and better day by day. I don't know how it is happening but I am seeing that people call me mr.smart, mr.hot etc and girls have that shine in their eyes when I am with them. I came a long way from David D. to Mystery Method to Nick Shane to Thundercat to Vin DiCarlo to Gunwitch to RSD to Tim to David Wygant (not in that order though).... and I believe guys, if we all keep at this thing, we would get in tune with our inner natural player one day and we would see the nimbus burning around our heads. I am not giving here any advice but from a guy who has been trying and testing and retesting what he even knew beforehand for over a long time, I can say I have come a long way and find yourself, that's all can I say. Get out in the field and see what works for yourself. There are no routines, no stories, no jokes, nothing, not rules are applicable in this game or fixed because they are said by some PUAs, only you and you as a person as a personality can attract a woman. Embrace your strength, embrace your sexuality, be a man and go get her, buds! Dream and Go get your dream! I would like you all to remember one thing.... Perception is Reality. True in the dating game and in the game of life. So, when you believe you are successful with girls, you are. Imagine and affirm it to yourself. When you are done, the story begins there.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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darkme_legendary

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get in tune with our inner natural player one day and we would see the nimbus burning around our heads
True. All these methods are trying to accomplish this thing.

True in the dating game and in the game of life. So, when you believe you are successful with girls, you are. Imagine and affirm it to yourself. When you are done, the story begins there.
Yep, change your inner reality and the external will almost take care of itself.
 
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