"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Let Me In

cleats

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Thers a girl im into and shes into me to. The problem is she won't let me in, she seems to have her guard up at times due to the fact that she has been burnt so many times in the past. The ex BF is slowly getting out of the picture, and she is always *****ing to me about the way he treats her, and of course she says shes done with him. Do I give her the time she is asking for, or do I move on.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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she's not into you, she's more than likely really digging your sholder however
 

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Originally posted by backbreaker
she's not into you, she's more than likely really digging your sholder however
Co-signed. My advice is to swiftly remove your available shoulder from your relationship with her if you want even a slim chance with her... caring about women's pointless bull**** is the job of their female friends, and thank God almighty it is for men's sake.
 
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