Let her go

[daygameguy]

I don't believe in recovery. I don't believe in persisting. So basically what I am saying is, unless I am sure that I played the game nicely, won her over, showed my interest, and built some rapport/comfort.. I will not close.. cuz i know that if I didn't build enough attraction when I met her the first time, it will be nearly impossible to call her out and start from scratch.

So only if I feel good about a pickup, I close. Otherwise I just let her go. Is that a good mentality to have?

 

[slaog]

I think so but some girls are shy too and won't be too easy to read. Most girls may get a bit of a shock that you approached them if it's in the street for example so don't expect them to be relaxed and calm.

It's best to make sure and give them a chance. For me it would depend on their attitude. If I didn't like it I wouldn't waste much time with them.

 

[Rebound Material]

So only if I feel good about a pickup, I close. Otherwise I just let her go. Is that a good mentality to have?

It is, but I also believe in trying 3 more times before giving her up. This meaning regardless of the quality of my game in the beginning(poor or good), Im gonna TRY to game her 3 more times max meaning: asking her out, calling her up to see if the convo is dry or hot, basically trying to feel out any possible signs of interest. If she shows me green flags within those 3 advances then Im gonna keep gaming until I get what I want or until I get the official FZ line.

Of course, theres exceptions: If she blantly tells me she's not into me "like that", gives me a really bullsh!t ass attitude, is playing TOO hard to get or basically shows signs of branching or being damaged goods then I drop her before 3....

 

[daygameguy]

Thanks for advice. Much appreciated. I should give it a try if I feel the attraction/connection is "probably" there.. just in case it works out right.

I've got nothing to lose.

 

[DJDamage]

Thanks for advice. Much appreciated. I should give it a try if I feel the attraction/connection is "probably" there.. just in case it works out right.

I've got nothing to lose.

If you are afraid to fail then you will succeed less. There is never sure thing about anything when it comes to pickup. The girl can give you good IOI and sometimes she does not. Sometimes they are shy as someone mentioned or they don't want you to know that they like you if they are not sure you like them back. Sometimes they are just being AW's and they want attention but nothing else and sometimes they like you so much that they are actually act 'cold' and 'combatitive' towards you because they are really nervous.

If you are attracted to a girl, always go for it, chances are you will probably never see her again and worse case scenerio she will just say no.