Leave it?

[Jizz]

Ok basically theres this girl who im friends with right now, but we both no that its not just friends, theres always been intrest from us both and been some tension!

Thing is because its me she knows that if we got together it would be a serious relationship, but she has lots of exams coming up and its a massive few months for her right now, so atm she has this non serious bf that shes basically using for sex!

she doesnt have to work in this relationship and she can get her sex when she wants it and can also concentrate on her exams and stuff!

I believe i have a chance with her, i think that shes maybe waiting till after her exams before she looks for something serious, but i like her and i dont know whether i should go for it with her now or wait till after her exams!

If i go for it now, how do i? Whether she gives me a chance to get close to her i really dont know

If i should wait, then how do i play it for the next few months, seeing as we will probably cross paths or chat on msn/phone at some point!?

ta for any advice

 

[blinkwatt]

I beleive you need to give some examples of why you beleive you have a chance. I do not think any of us would like to lead you into a battle you would lose(no offense). If she is using someone for sex,then having more then one partner should not be a problem for her as she is not really in a relationship. Do not wait,you will fall into the friends category. A way I found that almost always leads to better things is finding a way to slap the women's azz. You could do this when you are making out,kissing,kinoing it up. If they like you touching them that way it will make for a kiddingly "hey what was that for" and I will follow up with "it was just sticking out there asking for it". Then it can lead almost anywhere from her "are you calling it fat?","oh,well thank you!" or if they are really slutty "you should see what is looks like with no pants on". That is a true test of where you stand with the ladies,it can make or break you.

 

[Fash]

I agree with blinkwatt. As an extension, why aren't you the one she is having sex with?

If it is just sex she wants at the moment, you need to demostrate that you can give her exactly that. If she wants to get serious after her exams, then you'll be there to grab that too!

You need to pull some serious kino routines on her, and do a phase shift from the friends side to the sexual partner side.

 

[Tomatoes]

Waiting never works