"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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True Wolf

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I have seen alot of posts and been asked alot of questions about what moves to use, or what they should do, or how to get a certain girl, ect.

There are far too many people that want to skip steps, take a shortcut and cut corners to get what they want faster.

They ask what move to use on a certain girl, without first learning what causes attraction. They try to get women using techniques, lines and lies, without bothering to clean themselves up, turn their disfunctional life around, learn why they can't get a woman, and FIX it.

This makes about as much sense as asking a professional race car driver about how to drive, then getting in a broken down beater of a car and trying to go win the indy 500. Sure the tips may have helped some, but your not going to win.

So before you learn techniques, learn lines, or learn moves, take the time to learn why the lines work, develope good habits, learn how atracttion works and develope some self confidence.

This will not only save you from alot of rejection, but it will make you more spontanious because when you know how attraction work, it is much easier to come up material on the spot.

Do yourself a favor, and learn the basics if you already haven't, and if you have it can't hurt to review.

+- True Wolf
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This will not only save you from alot of rejection, but it will make you more spontanious because when you know how attraction work, it is much easier to come up material on the spot.
I agree and then i disagree becuase i think your totaly right i think what your tryin to say is theres alot of guys out there just searching for brilliant line, moves, ideals that were created not by them but by some one else therefore when those lines, moves and ideas runs out he'll pretty much be screwed. so your sayin that you should learn the basic like how to use eye contact, kino, ****y+funny, charm and manners(not talkin bout being a nice guy here) to your advantage.

This will not only save you from alot of rejection
learn from your rejections becuase if you dont experiment, acualy get off your ass and do some practicin then hours after hours will be wasted. Like some1 of this forum once mention it doesnt matter how much tips you read, it doesnt matter if you memerize 4 pages worth of lines it still wont help you if you dont got experience to back you up on your game.

Wolf your my age! thats so cool! Where are you from ?
 

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yup, practicing is good even though its hard to get yourself to do it. just go out with a friend. ive come to realize that doing something stupid isnt as bad as watching the moment pass by. REMEMBER THE 3 SEC RULE.

oh yea, i think im the youngest one here :)
 
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