"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jhonny9546

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This post is for those over 30, looking ahead. Have you ever thought about how being a coach or leading a local sports club can give you a certain status? It’s not about fame, money, it’s about being part of your community, especially when working with kids.

You build close connections, organize events, and watch children grow. It becomes like a big family, and you're seen as someone competent and reliable. Interestingly, roles like coach or club director often attract admiration, maybe because they show leadership and care. What’s great is how naturally it leads to strong, lasting friendships. And this applies to all sports, not just the popular ones.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BaronOfHair

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This post is for those over 30, looking ahead. Have you ever thought about how being a coach or leading a local sports club can give you a certain status?
Start coaching your nearest JV girls volleyball team: When you get busted for planting a nanny cam in their locker room as they shower, or impregnating 3-4 of them, you'll likely be jettisoned out of obscurity and into national celebrity, as the star of multiple true crime documentaries
 

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Have you ever thought about how being a coach or leading a local sports club can give you a certain status?
There's limited status in doing this.

If you coach collegiate sports in the USA or coach a professional sports team, you will have money/status. That's likely to help with getting laid.

Single male youth sports coaches might be able to have sex with a divorced single mom.
 
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