"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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laughter is powerful

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suaveplayer

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hey guys im not gonna pretend im an expert, just sharing wat i can.

so how do you genuinely connect with a girl (or anyone)? not with "game" but with laughter. If you guys share a joke or a laugh, you will become closer. Laughter really connects ppl. it is really the difference between meeting someone new and connecting with that perosn.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Once you truley believe yourself to be a funny person it will be automatic.
but sometimes that isnt enough
do whatever it takes to put you in a goodass mood
me
i put on som music and feel like gruving and charismatic behavouir is very warming and contagous
 
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I liked Flicka and Dreamer.. both were about horses, the Ficka is the latest one the verison with Tim Mcgraw
Dreamer has Dakota Fanning in it.
for animated.. I liked Charlotte's Web
 
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