"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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later guys

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whats up guys? anyways I just wanted to say thanks for everything on here. This site is cool and all but I am going to be moving out so soon I wont have a computer. Mayber later ill have one again so who knows. Im not sure how long that will be so I just wanted to let you guys know this friday will be my last time on here.

I dont think theres a way to delete my account but if there is please delete it. Maybe someone in the future will want to use this username.

I've learned so much good things on here that ill never forget it. thank you all for all the good times. Keep up the djing guys. ill maybe see you guys later.:up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You can come back with a new name that better describes you!
 
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