"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Since coming across the knowledge, that eating carbs 5-7 hours before bed was bad, ive tried my best to obey this rule. I am finding it very difficult. Traditionally ive always eaten a bowl of cereal , and toast before bed, to curb my hunger through the night. Now that i know protein before bed is good, im trying to incorporate that. Something about a protein shake before bed, leaves my stomach not feeling good when im trying to sleep. Can somebody please suggest some appropriate, tasty snacks that work before bed?(other than protein shake)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Now that i know protein before bed is good, im trying to incorporate that.

Protein isn't bad before bed but carbs are.

Can somebody please suggest some appropriate, tasty snacks that work before bed?(other than protein shake)

Eggs,egg whites,peanuts(I eat 2oz.),chicken breast,ground turkey,basically food really low in carbs.Heck if you wanted you could just eat lettuce. I know alot of people do it,but I would steer clear of milk before bed because it's actually full of sugar.
 

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blinkwatt said:
Now that i know protein before bed is good, im trying to incorporate that.

Protein isn't bad before bed but carbs are.


Thats what i was implying...carbs bad, protein good, no idea why you quoted that and wrote the exact same thing

Also all those things u mentioned like chicken, turkey, seem really heavy before bed

to Kerpal: did you not read the first post when i was asking for suggestion other than protein shake?
 

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Thats what i was implying...carbs bad, protein good, no idea why you quoted that and wrote the exact same thing

My mistake.

Also all those things u mentioned like chicken, turkey, seem really heavy before bed

Nope not really,just don't eat a pound of it and you will be cool.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you wake up in the middle of the night and are hungry, just have a scoop of protein (mixed with water). It'll axe the hunger. Carbs seven hours before bed isn't excessive depending on the person IMO. Personally on some days, the last time I consume carbs is the early PM.
 
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