"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Last Week...Saw My First Real Life Approach RFLMAO

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Until last week, i've never seen a guy approach a girl, ever. You don't see it, maybe in a night club, but not anywhere else.

So this semi retarted black guy walks past this black chick and utters the greatest pick up line i ever heard...


"whatttup cun+"

she walked past him and the girl and her friend were smiling looking back at him with his arms in the air. they were ****ing hysterical laughing. the girl wasnt hot she was chubby sh.t and she knew that would of been the best offer she would ever get.

greatest thing i ever saw
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ace of Flames

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It happens all the time, its just that you never pick up on it. Once you've gotten yourself in tune with how seduction goes down and all, you notice it alot more.

I was just walking back to my dorm the other day, and this group of black guys was going one way, while this short asian chick was going the other way. As they passed, one of the guys put out his hand like for a handshake and says "Hi!". She never even looked in his direction. He might as well not have been there. After they passed all the black guys just laughed, and then I saw the asian girl turn around and look back at them like "wtf?".

Wh0re. Could of at least given him a hi back.
 

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Ace of Flames said:
It happens all the time, its just that you never pick up on it. Once you've gotten yourself in tune with how seduction goes down and all, you notice it alot more.
Well, in a sense, I will agree. Most guys "seduce women" as if it were some 6-month process. Counted times have I seen guys directly approach women, not hiding with some over-thought excuse, as done in nightclubs etc (the direct approach).

And, guys that have some game, get sucked into a relationship in a second. The DJ/PUA way is very, very rare. Any afc/niceguy that gets in the community, and has daily "action" can kick any "natural"'s ass.

More unto the subject... I've seen guys just stand there around a woman and not say anything haha. And also, sometimes guys get some balls and say "hi" .. and then just stand there lmao.
 

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I have seen it happen thousands of times.. lol it always goes like that.

Some people gotta fvcking loosen up.

The only thing I hate is when girls approach you and they are fat.

Fvcking pisses me off.

Approaches happen all the fvcking time.. just nothing ever comes of it. And the approacher is always a semi-retarded.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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arlanda

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Hm, I've never actually seen someone do an approach. I guess most people, at least here in Europe meet new people via mutual friends.
 

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Approaches are rare in most places, which makes things easier. Particularly in bars and club settings, if you're at all interesting and you're ballsy you can quickly own the place. I was in Leicester Square last weekend and watched approaches go down all over the place - street, bar, club, restaurants. Did a few myself too.
 

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seanchai said:
Approaches are rare in most places, which makes things easier. Particularly in bars and club settings, if you're at all interesting and you're ballsy you can quickly own the place. I was in Leicester Square last weekend and watched approaches go down all over the place - street, bar, club, restaurants. Did a few myself too.
Ahh yes on a sidetrack have you noticed that when others approach you approach aswell, or as soon as you start others start on othger girls aswell, its like some mental cue or something, like everyone is waiting for someone to say or do something, seen it heaps at open air concerts and big clubs.

Back to the point, yea once you realise whats happening you can see openly guys approaching girls, girls approaching guys, its normal.

And yea once in a blue moon you see some retard that blows his chances LOL
 

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One time, my cousin who's 26 and I were in Wal-Mart. We saw this 5'7 black guy try to mack a couple of white chicks. You could tell they wanted to get away from him. So my cousin who's 5'9 about 250 (some body fat, but would incredible if he cut) saw this guy, and while this guy was trying to mack, my cousin just walked right through them. the black kid was talking to them, and all of a sudden this huge guy ruined his game because he walked right in between him. That was so ahole, but it was damn funny.
 
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