"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Last week of high school!!

Locster

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I have started to make progress becoming more social. Since this is the last week of school and I have nothing to lose what are ways that I can approach girls on campus that I dont know? Have any of you guys ever cold approached girls at your school?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sammo

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If it's the last week of school then who honestly gives a ****!

The thing with school is it's not a good practice ground for openers. It's a good place to learn the rest of your game, but openers seem to put you in a position of sh!tting where you eat.. and you don't want that.

Now you are in the last week it doesn't matter any more, practice cold approaches! Try the female oppinion openeres, they seem the least like your coming on to them straight away. Having said that, HS girls have no ***** shields.. they haven't been hit on enough. You've ussually reached the hook point after 'hello'.

;) Go get em brother, and dont have any regrets.
 
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