"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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**LAST MINUTE ADVICE FROM DJs** GIRL IS COMING TOMMOROW AFTERNOON!!

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So i got this hb9 coming tommorow from out of state. Its my cousins, lets call him cousin1, long distance GFs good girlfriend. Backround story is she just broke up with her BF and is coming o California to "hang out" and make new friends. One of my other cousins lets call him cousin2 is like "Ken, shes vulnarable, she just broke up with her BF!!, do whatever yo can to fvck her!!" and my oher cousin(his older bro and BF with hb9s friend) is like "NoOo...dude just take her out and make friends"

so the deal is tommrow after my cousin gets off work we go pick her up from the airport ad go have dinner...the day after, which is friday...while my cousin1 is at wok till about 5pm. So now i gotta keep her entertained for the day basically...

Help me set up a "plan" to bed her!! start to finish, i need advice!! MMethod says 7 hours is all you need to build enough rapport and comfort....

ADVICE ASAP!!


should i try to game her or just make friends?? i wouldnt mind setting up something serious with this chick neither...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ken785

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i dont think out of towners would want to come here to see movies so thats out...come on guys help! i gotta entertain this chick for at lease 7 hours!!
 

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Ken785 said:
So i got this hb9 coming tommorow from out of state. Its my cousins, lets call him cousin1, long distance GFs good girlfriend. Backround story is she just broke up with her BF and is coming o California to "hang out" and make new friends. One of my other cousins lets call him cousin2 is like "Ken, shes vulnarable, she just broke up with her BF!!, do whatever yo can to fvck her!!" and my oher cousin(his older bro and BF with hb9s friend) is like "NoOo...dude just take her out and make friends"

so the deal is tommrow after my cousin gets off work we go pick her up from the airport ad go have dinner...the day after, which is friday...while my cousin1 is at wok till about 5pm. So now i gotta keep her entertained for the day basically...

Help me set up a "plan" to bed her!! start to finish, i need advice!! MMethod says 7 hours is all you need to build enough rapport and comfort....

ADVICE ASAP!!


should i try to game her or just make friends?? i wouldnt mind setting up something serious with this chick neither...
You don't even KNOW her and you already wouldn't mind setting up something serious? are you kidding me?.

give her a hug when you see her, keep up kino, make her laugh take her around town and back to somewhere to isolate.
 

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First, chill. Too high of expectations leads to disappointment.

Second, do something fun and have a good time. Just focus on having a good time.

Then, if the vibe's there, you'll be in the best position to run with it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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idk the F*ck-close might be out of your league that kinda sh*t takes practice....whatever you do just be a MAN about the situation..if the relationship was long then you might not get any if he was an as.s.hole you may not get any cuz she thinks guys are a-holes..find out how the last bF was and do the opposite be her friend then KINO lots of eye contact...then just make a move when you feel the time is right...(just start rubbing her p*ssy) she's either going to slap you or start moaning....it'z all in how u seduce her.
 

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isnt it best not to talk about ex's?? what if they ask me about my past relationships and i dont have any? saying youve never had a LTR before either makes you look like a loser or a player...
 

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fvck guys! i think shes a shy chick...she seems to feel more comfortable with my cousin who has meet her from before from out of state. hes knocked out right now at the stoll of his bed while she is knocked out from the front. it was too late for me to assk her out for late night dennys. i even walked into the room to see if she was awake so i can ask her to go to dennys but she was under the sheets not moving...

she ether seems shy or not interested cuz the whole night whenever i asked hef something shes like either "yeah..." but she did say that she just broke with her ex and shes going here to "get away"...to me thats a vulnarable chick just trying to fvuck! shes traveling by herself too, the only one she knows is my cousin who is BFs with her best friend...i got the whole day with her tommorow...ADVICE PLEASE!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sounds like you'll be chalking this one up to experience...

Unless she's a bigtime slvt and/or you're super attractive, I can't see you fkking this one.

This would be a great chance to practise acting like a man, around a more or less captive audience hb9. I could be wrong, but something tells me you you're gonna go out of your way to please her and practise being an afc instead. But the truth is, in the long run, you'd much better off if she went home complaining about "that sleazy jerk" than speaking indifferently about "oh Ken? he was nice".
 

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danielzxc said:
Sounds like you'll be chalking this one up to experience...

Unless she's a bigtime slvt and/or you're super attractive, I can't see you fkking this one.

This would be a great chance to practise acting like a man, around a more or less captive audience hb9. I could be wrong, but something tells me you you're gonna go out of your way to please her and practise being an afc instead. But the truth is, in the long run, you'd much better off if she went home complaining about "that sleazy jerk" than speaking indifferently about "oh Ken? he was nice".
Yeah i agree. Chalk this as experience.

Like i told you before Ken, just like tyler says in the foundations the goal is to get good with women in general, if you were good with women in general then you'd know what to do here.
 
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