Eternal_water
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 12, 2012
- Messages
- 899
- Reaction score
- 51
Thanks to everyone who replied to my previous thread
( http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=196367 )
Last friday was a repeat, we start of dancing around the girls on the floor and trying to break into the group. We're getting no IOI's from any of them (he isn't either) and keep switching between all the floors (this place has several dance floors).
On one of the floors we start dancing up to a group of them and he clearly selects a target and makes multiple passes at the girl who keeps brushing him off. Then he switches to her friend and makes a pass at her and boom, he spends the rest of the night making out with her friend.
Now this guy couldn't get girls all through school and collage but suddenly every time we go clubbing he can have one.
From entering up to this point I have recieved no IOI's, strangely once he left with her and I was on my own I start getting 1 or 2 IOI's every no and again which goes against all theories of social proofing but there you go. Thing is though When I try and dance with the ones who show some interest after about a few seconds trying to dance with them 1 on 1 the interest is gone and they literally walk away.
Around 2:30AM there are a load of girls who are just sitting by themselves around the edges of the place, so I go and approach a few but they all leave within about 30 seconds, one of them actually ran away and jumped onto some guy and started making out with him.
So what exactly can I do to improve here, I mean I'm wearing dark navy blue jeans, shoes and a proper shirt something like this: http://www.dolcefugo.com/images/large/armani_lshirt_131_a.jpg but with darker jeans. My friend arrives in trainers and fairly scruffy, he clearly puts no effort into his appearance.
So what advice can you give?
( http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=196367 )
Last friday was a repeat, we start of dancing around the girls on the floor and trying to break into the group. We're getting no IOI's from any of them (he isn't either) and keep switching between all the floors (this place has several dance floors).
On one of the floors we start dancing up to a group of them and he clearly selects a target and makes multiple passes at the girl who keeps brushing him off. Then he switches to her friend and makes a pass at her and boom, he spends the rest of the night making out with her friend.
Now this guy couldn't get girls all through school and collage but suddenly every time we go clubbing he can have one.
From entering up to this point I have recieved no IOI's, strangely once he left with her and I was on my own I start getting 1 or 2 IOI's every no and again which goes against all theories of social proofing but there you go. Thing is though When I try and dance with the ones who show some interest after about a few seconds trying to dance with them 1 on 1 the interest is gone and they literally walk away.
Around 2:30AM there are a load of girls who are just sitting by themselves around the edges of the place, so I go and approach a few but they all leave within about 30 seconds, one of them actually ran away and jumped onto some guy and started making out with him.
So what exactly can I do to improve here, I mean I'm wearing dark navy blue jeans, shoes and a proper shirt something like this: http://www.dolcefugo.com/images/large/armani_lshirt_131_a.jpg but with darker jeans. My friend arrives in trainers and fairly scruffy, he clearly puts no effort into his appearance.
So what advice can you give?