"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Weaselpuke

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I knew this woman a few years back,,,,, back then she decided never to tell me about her then boyfriend. So to sum it up she ended up getting married and we loast touch.

Then out of the blue I got a message from her seeing how my new house was and that she had a house warming gift for me.

I guss I just though it was strange, we haven't spoke in a 1 1/2, not sure what the deal is now.

Just looking for opinions...

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WaterTiger

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My guess would be that she feels bad for doing you dirty and the "house-warming gift" is also an apology gift. She might use this time to say she's sorry.

....OR....the new hubby isn't working out like she hoped and she's seeing if she can come back to you.

Either way, you have the upper hand.
 
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FratAndDiddy

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married women have never "warmed" up a house, but thanks for the gift !
 
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