"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm in the Mood

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When I say she's full of sh!t, I mean that it seems like she's trying to rationalize to herself that she doesn't like you to cover up the fact that she does like you.

See, this is the logic of women...it really doesn't make any sense at all lol. Some women are much more honest and in touch with their feelings, though.

Pozitron and Norwegian DJ have made a very good point - you are better off having a relationship with other girls. This one sounds like she has some personal problems, and when you open the door to a relationship with her, all of those problems are going to smack you right in the face...just a warning.

People in general are not the same on the inside as they are on the outside.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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People in general are not the same on the inside as they are on the outside
So true... although one's true self is sometimes coming trough.
 

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I can see that. Like how my other friends are facing the same problem. I have a friend who is a girl, she's okay but I just don't get the feeling with her.

She likes this guy who apparently has the same feelings as the girl I like. This girl as well is eager for a relationship(just like me). So, on the first look, both of us will get together fast and grant our own wish.

But 'Love' is something you can't bring it up upon(For me). I only get that feeling 'automatically'. I mean there was once I liked this girl and this feeling seemed to have faded away BY ITSELF. And after that, it was this current girl. The other was worse off. She didn't even care.

When you give me a warning, I take it into consideration. But if anyone suggests me to go into relationship with other girls, I say no way. I mean, i'm standing firm. I don't want to be such a, 'loser'. I don't wanna give up that easily yeah? But anyway thanks.
 

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a winner is the one who knows when to let go.
 

I'm in the Mood

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I've been thinking lately about relationship experience. Most guys don't have a very wide range of experiences having relationships with or dating different types of girls.

How can you really know what you want if you don't really know what it's like?

The best thing he can do is to see what it's like without acting like he wants to marry the chick...I mean whoever you are, you're going to need to get some relationship experience if you EVER want to get good at the game.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Going back to the whole, People aren't like they seem idea:
It's a huge part of a relationship. You think that someone is one person but they turn out to be something else. I liked this shy girl who was really outgoing around friends. But It turns out that she had a lot of emotional stuff going on, and thinking back on things I was crazy to want to be more the friends with her. Some girls will just make ****ty Girlfriends. Try to find out if they have a hidden side before you saddle up with them or bad stuff happens.
 
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