"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KUlowiper's BootCamp

kulowiper

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I'm giving the Don Juan Boot Camp another try, I don't want to give up on this ****. I already tried 2 time but stopped at week #4 the first and Week #2 the 2nd time. Then I tried the High School Boot Camp and I Never even attempted it. LOL I'm going for my 4th time for the Don Juan Boot Camp. Hey at least I won't give up on myself. They say that the third time is the lucky time. My current problem right now is trying to change my reality on the way I view women. When I see a girl that I like on her looks I just turn at her for a quick sec and move on saying some self defeating thoughts. I'm going to do this **** until I complete the Don Juan Boot Camp. I want to get this life of my life handled.
Recently, I have came to reason that picking up girls is like driving stick-shift. In the beginning when you are learning how to drive the car, you will put the incorrect gear or you might burn tire on accident having no control of where you wan to burn tire. Or when you turn on the car using the clutch it wont turn on unless you press the clutch deep within the car and all those learning curves with using a stick-shift car. I was surprised that the next day and they day after that the car wouldn't turn off anyone and I had more control on maintaining the gear speeds. For every skill, there is always a learning curve. PU women is the same thing, it is a skill and what does Emerson say "All life is an experiment"

My goals that I would like to accomplish would be too:
1) Make approaching girls of my interest instinctively,. without thinking.
2) **** a girl that is my age around 16-20 and get my **** sucked in the process.

When I complete the Don Juan Boot Camp I am going to reward myself with a Hat

Here is a pic of me, if any of you guys see me in the street or in the bus and say something inspirational to me. I will not give up, i don't care if I have to start a new Boot camp every week when I get behind in the Boot Camp Process. Hers my pic
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=658742
My name in that Forum is Chingara. So if you see me Motivate me and flame me LOL I'm located in Los Angeles, the San Fernando Valley

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=91827 http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=86985
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=77580
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=87464

Now I can run a total of 16 miles in about 3 hours. Running for 3 hours takes a lot of dedication and motivation. So now I'm pretty motivated


Day 1 01-21-06

Said 3 Hi's 47 more to go.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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join our BC we are doing week 2 u can catch up with us
 

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2 Hi's 2 EC

45 Hi 's 48 EC to go
 

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I really ****ed up I didn't do **** of His only cuzz my attitude sucked on this Boot Camp. I didn't even make it past week one. Weeek 1 is always a breeze for me. I was usualkly more concertrated in skool trying to get good grades. "You attitude determines your altitude" as someon said so now I am going to take things away from em that I really like. i enjoy physical fitness, so guess what i am goin go take way the gym and running. I am going on apoint system. Everyday I am going to set myself a goal of # of appraoches and a # of all that great stuff. If i don't live up to my word, guess what I am not going to physically train. "From every action there will be a price to pay" I aslo read a post on my teachers board and I posted to you ll Don Jauns who have changed my life Thanks!!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=42017
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=94139
 

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As I promised, I am doin the Boot Camp Again
Today I got nothing LOl
1-28-05
I got alot of His whole running it was ubsurd I decide to get sotp my Hi count on 5
5 Hi 5 EC
Today I did something brand new. I visited the Mall with the intention on doing a newbie mision on Fast Seduction. Same principle say hi to every women you see. I fianly got the meaning opf th post. took me like a year. I went, but I didnt say Hi. However I was talking to a few women salespeople at the store, remember when you are going to the store the women salespeople are paid to talk to you, SO talk to any of them. Say something along the lines that "I'm looking for new shoes/clothes, which ones would you remmend" Bam a whole conversation opened. Also, ask them for an opinion " Will these shoes / this shirt go with my clothes" Women are ****ing fashion experts if you haven't noticed.LOL SO I talked to four sales representatives with the intentions of opening a conversation. My first women representative that I opened up I started sturterin, but by the second women sales represenatative was a flow for me. I think I have made progrees
1. I ewnt to the mall(which I rarely do)
2. I talked to a women at will

My next goals when I attend the mall is to
1. Say Hi to total strangers like i do when I RUn (BTW yoday I ran 17 milesanother progreess LOL in 4 hours)

At the end of my mall experience, I left with a big bye to a salesperson. Godamm I love salesperson beacuse they are paid to talk to you. I got to stay away from them. LOL
9 Hi's 9 EC
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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eek 1 again LOl

I wont give up on myself

The Journey

I have a curiosity on how my life will be different when I complete the Don Juan Boot Camp. I have tried the Don Juan Boot Camp several times, but now there is that little voice in my head “ You are suppose to be doing the Don Juan Boot Camp.” Since final are over, I have no schoolwork to occupies myself with and no work ( As of now I am searching for a Job, today I'm going for an interview to Magic Mountain. I hope I get the job.) Now, as I attempting Week 1 for the third time in a row LOL, I have found out that it all has to do with priorities, you know those routines that you wish to improve on.
We all have routines, things we do normally each day. My routine consist of Three things SCHOOL, GYM, & S.R.L.A. I usually don't have time for anything else because I'm either trying to Self-Improve myself or trying to be independent. I have come a long way from my AFC days of not having a seduction site to look upon and my rAFC days (currently).
Back to the topic, I have done the DJ Boot Camp so many time (but I won't give) but I wonder how my life will change. Will my paradigm on how I vie women will change..... SO many possibilities only finishing the DJ Boot will explain.
NOTE I HAVE NOT COMPLETED IT I AM IN WEEK:
Life will redevelop between my eyes. I will have an uncanny insticnt to open any girl that I want to, going with my ultimate opener Hi!!. MY paradigms will shift because my body is introduced to a new stimulus, a womens ***** and her presence near me. I will not be afraid or not even think of hiding my sexuality of me wanting her. My priorities will change from school to WOMEN!!
I order to succeed I first have to change my priorities I joined the marines and I gave up the Marines you know like going to their daily meeting just for the gym. My priorities will be the following
1.Don Juan Boot Camp Like. Here is something from the “48 laws of Power” “Casanova attributed his success in life towards to his ability to concentrate on a single goal and push at it until it yielded, Casanova once wrote ' I have always believed that when a man gets it into his head to do something and when he exclusively occupies himself in that design, he must succeed, no matter the difficulties. That man will become Grand Vizier or Pope. '” ( I can give up on school for a little bit because it is going to be the starting of the semester)
2.Gym ( I love the gym) go Arnold http://rapidshare.de/files/1057526/Arnold_1980_Olympia.wmv.html
Here are some must read book for you BB Nut heads like me (broken Link But check on it from time to time http://www.bodybuildingbooks.be/
3.School- Gotta keep those grades up to go to the Marines. U.S.A !!!
4.S.R.L.A I am training to run for the L.A Marathon consisting of 26.2 miles. Currently I can run 18.6 miles. That Is a ***** but what does Casanova believe
Now i gotta live my life foloowing the similar instruction TURN OFF COMPUTER!!! This is what has go go through my Mind for he following 2 MONTHS DON JAUN BOOT CAMP NAME OF TH GOAL etc......
I feel so ashamed for attempting he Dj Boot Camp again.
 

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Sup guys I have really made progress I am going to start weeks 3 already. I wan to get this **** over with; however, I will be a man and stand towards my fears. Fuk man, today i ****ed myself up again. As soon as I saw this one cheerleader girl through the window of one classroom, my AFC sprouted out instantaneously. AFC began to circulate through my veins and all I wanted to ignore her that she passed. However, I realized that a person can move mountains, destroy civilization with only the thought of an idea. I became a MAN and got out of the classroom, Which took a lot of balls because of my state of mind(which I am proud for) and walked outside , near her and I ignored her. AFC started running through my heads thinking thoughts like " your mind can destroy civilization, destroy mountains. Hey, I congratulate myself with going outside of the classroom. Next time baby, that is why I am doing this Boot Camp, to be proficient in the area of women Week 3 officially starts tomorrow. Sorry for not posting any results on this page.
 
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Today I didn't talk to any women that I was interested in. i went to the supermarket however I didn't find any women meeting my criteria. Aah w/e I'm so used to seeing young faces in school that I next them to be too old Lol. Tomorrow i ma go downtown Wooot I live in L.A, so it going to be fun. Any P.U.A living in the L.A lets met and lets go meet women.
0 talked to girls I'm interested in dating
I found out today that meeting women on a Friday night in a supermarket is not a fantastic idea in my area.
 

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Kulowiper reporting for duty. Today i am going to go to downtown to universal City Walk. I am going to think that I am a P.u.a annd as pook said As you think, you shall become.
 
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