Know your enemy

[DanelMadr]

I wanted to learn what a guy gets when he starts to search on line for pick up info....googled it, found some trash...but I also found this piece of advice for GIRLS (the whole article is here:The rules):

General Dating Rules
Ensure you receive flowers. If he doesn't know what a florist is, dump him.
Always keep a guy waiting and never turn up early. It is a lady's perogative.
Never be available when he wants you to be. Never be at the end of a phone when he calls and always let him leave a message or two first before replying.
If he is available Tuesday, you are available Thursday.
Weekend shopping trips with girlfriends are sacred and not available for dates.
Keep your man standing on quicksand by shifting landmarks and goalposts constantly.

If the guy in the corner is gorgeous, go get him and create the need in him for you. Never wait for men to come to you because you may watch him leave with someone else.

I don't know what to think about it. It rings some bells though as I observed this kind of behavior and basically it didn't feel good or natural.

O.K. I understand it weeds out the "I wouldn't date her I just want to eff her" and maybe some wussies who chicken out or panic in first sense of resistance.

But let me tell you...I would NEXT a chick who would demand some stuff mentioned there thinking she is major bytch. As she probably is when she follows the rules.

Note: "Men just love to hunt women" is general misconception. Men love to make love to hot women. I'm certainly happy with myself when the "hunt" is short as possible. Unless I'm hunting buffalo for sport.

How can these Rules work for women???

 

[moneyisking]

is this why a lot of girls in this country are retarded when it comes to dating and opposite sex interaction?

 

[Donnie Darko]

Comments in RED below:

General Dating Rules
Always look great, whatever your income. Gorgeous hair and some lipstick with rags will still turn his head. OKYou have the advantage. NO You are the woman. Look your best as you could meet a potential Mr. Right anywhere at any time. OK
Never reveal information you don't have to. An enigmatic woman drives men wild.OK
Keep dates brief, but your men interested. OKLess is always more.
Try and stay in shape and involve some fitness regime at a gym. However much you hate it, your Mr. Right loves your body as much as your mind.OK
Let your man pay. If he is interested, he is interested enough to ensure you eat well and get home safely in a cab.NEXT
Ensure you receive flowers. If he doesn't know what a florist is, dump him.NEXT
Never ever sleep with a guy until he has fallen for you. Sex early in your dating game plan will ruin everything.Situational but probably NEXT if intimacy is not escalating
Always keep a guy waiting and never turn up early. NEXTIt is a lady's perogative.
Never be available when he wants you to be. NEXTNever be at the end of a phone when he calls and always let him leave a message or two first before replying.If you don't reply to the first message, then don't expect a second one anytime soon. You don't reply to a second message the following week, then NEXT.
If he is available Tuesday, you are available Thursday.Cool we can go out Tuesday or sometime next week instead
Weekend shopping trips with girlfriends are sacred and not available for dates.OK. Whatever.
Keep your man standing on quicksand by shifting landmarks and goalposts constantly.I'll probably think she is incongruent or bipolar
Ensure you are a good kisser. Men will walk away if you cannot kiss. Practice on a mirror if you have to.OK
Never ever talk about previous boyfriends, particularly their prowess in the bedroom. Your ex-boyfriends are your business only.OK
Never assume anything about your date until you choose to know him better. You cannot always tell by looking.OK
If any man shows the slightest signs of possessiveness or insecurity, run like the wind. Life is too short for boys.OK
If his shoes or hygiene are a disgrace, dump him.OK but shoes and hygiene seem completely different IMO though it is interesting that shoes are that important to women.
Never talk too much about your father and how your date measures up in comparison.OK
Never ever come across as too available or too desperate. He will run a mile. OKHe is the one doing the chasing.That is what she thinks
If the guy in the corner is gorgeous, go get him and create the need in him for you. Never wait for men to come to you because you may watch him leave with someone else.OK
You may well have all the bodily functions of a man, just try not to demonstrate them early on.OK
If you want a child, don't mention it on the first few dates.OK
Never ever criticize his mother unless you want to remain single.OK

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

Imagine if dating could just be positive and fun with two people authentically connecting with each other. What a world.

 

[DMSR76]

How can these Rules work for women???

They can only work for women when we allow them to work. Until a critical mass of men "get it" and find the balls to consistently eject chicks who employ these foolish tactics, women will continue to use them. We encourage this foolishness with simpish behavior.

STOP FEEDING THE ANIMALS.

 

[DanelMadr]

Comments in RED below:

Totally agree. Especially the messages...even at my most AFC moments I never called more than twice, I would feel like jackazz if I did call more.

Have you noticed a flaw as I have? pursue HIM when he is gorgeous VSlet him fakking bleed in general ??? wtf?

On Amazon.com there are some pretty good reviews of the original book The Rules by some two bytches.

 

[Korrupt]

Imagine if dating could just be positive and fun with two people authentically connecting with each other. What a world.

Dream on..