"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kissing

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yes and no, I love kissing, really really miss a good intimate connecting snog, just cant do it with anyone
 

rushing dude 123

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Hmmm well you can use quite a lot of your tongue after you build it up. Start kissing her lips with yours for a bit then add just a bit more tongue, then whilst you are getting more passionate generally add more and more, then change it up a bit going back to soft kissing again. Then somtimes try to pull away before she does, leave her wanting more. Also change the technique, speeds and don't be afraid to use your hands on her neck,hips, back etc...when you are doing it.

In my opinion I wouldn't say though using your whole tongue and shoving it right at the back of her throat is a great thing to do, hold back just a bit.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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rushing dude 123 said:
In my opinion I wouldn't say though using your whole tongue and shoving it right at the back of her throat is a great thing to do, hold back just a bit.

All though nothing is wrong with shoving it as far back as it goes once or twice. The back of a girls throat/tonsils actually taste kinda good on your tounge :)
 
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