"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kiss Close

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Vive Hodie

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Dont kiss at the end of the night.

Dont prepare to kiss her beforehand.

If the night is going good then just kiss her. There shouldnt be a 5 minute build up before it happens.
"The two of you are enjoying the night, the conversation pauses, the moment presents itself, you kiss her.

It should literally take you about 3 seconds to recognize this is the time you should kiss her and you doing it.


If your not feeling the right vibes then dont push it, its no big deal. Theres no need to make a pleasent night awkward with a forced kiss.


Just live for the moment and enjoy yourself.
 

Spade

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Its easy man when ur alone with her or on the dance floor, do mystery's 3 triangle gaze thing. I forget wat its actually called but basically u look at her eyes, then her lips, then back to the eyes again, tilt ur head n go in. You can also play with her hair n stuff then go in for the kiss. Honestly dnt wry bout it that much, be confident, n go there already sure that ur gonna kiss her or hookup. Btw, let it be natural like VIVe said dnt force it.
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"Nothings Easy to the Unwilling"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Smack

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It's easier to go for it something throughout the night rather than at the end. By the end the tension will be very high, you'll be nervous (and so will she) and you might blow it.

Go for it whenever it feels right, be natural.
 
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