Kill or be killed...

[Ambition Now]

Thats how I can resume the relationships today, from all the relationships Ive been too and seem friends into, its always some kind of kill or be killed relationship (or end up being one).

People are always in those kinds of relationships, wether they are "killing" their partners or they are being "killed" by them...

Girls are just moving from a chump they use and dont have any respect for to a jerk where they are abused and not respected and vice-versa.

Ive been on the both sides of the story, and since Im trying to find a healthy relationship it didnt lasted...

I see on the forum a lot of guys working on filtering the bad chicks to find suitable ones, but I never see girls doing it, they are always on a "kill or be killed" relationship... why is that?

 

[Scion]

because they are in constant need for attention. They want the jerk because they are attracted to them. But they need the nice guy/chump because the jerk doesn't give them the attention they want. So a lot of girls will jump between these 2 types of guys, getting hurt by the jerk and hurting/frustrating the nice guy.

 

[sageproduct]

Maybe you could try to find girls in better places like churches and volunteer events.

 

[Ambition Now]

Maybe you could try to find girls in better places like churches and volunteer events.

I am not saying that about a specific group of girls, I am saying about what I see in general.

Its not about where they came from... I think its more about their self esteem issues... seems like all girls today has LSE and the way they deal with it is by being AW.

They seem that they dont work on their inner problems, they just try to heal the symptons by getting into sh1tty relationships. Am I wrong?

What I dont understand is that they go like this on their entire lifetime... They never see their flaws, while men usually think what they are doing wrong and try to fix it (like we all here are doing),

 

[zekko]

Its not about where they came from... I think its more about their self esteem issues... seems like all girls today has LSE and the way they deal with it is by being AW.

They seem that they dont work on their inner problems, they just try to heal the symptons by getting into sh1tty relationships. Am I wrong?

What I dont understand is that they go like this on their entire lifetime... They never see their flaws, while men usually think what they are doing wrong and try to fix it (like we all here are doing),

I wasn't quite sure what you were getting at in your original post, but this one makes a lot of sense and I think I have to agree with you.
Remember that women are emotional, so they will turn to someone else to make them feel better.
Men, on the other hand, are more logical, so we always want to try and fix things, including ourselves.

And maybe women are just more accepting of their flaws than we are, for whatever reason. Maybe because they're not so inclinced to analyze and try to fix things. Maybe that's another reason why they are more likely to file for divorce than men. If things hit a rough patch, they don't think it through, they just know they want to escape. Men don't like to fail, so they will be more inclined to stay and try to work on it.