"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kid from work

zekko

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I see a lot of different kinds of people of various ages at work. This one kid in particular is about 18-19 years old. He has bragged a lot about the long list of women he has had sex with. He's brought in some pictures of some of his prospects, some of them were pretty good looking (not surprising for the age group).

Thing is, the dude has NO standards at all. He has messed around with some of the ugliest, fattest, and older women. As long as they're down for it he will have sex with them. The other day he was rubbing the shoulders of this older woman with a strong sexual vibe. What went through my mind was that he was practicing his kino, but maybe I spend too much time on this forum.

Anway, not sure what the point is, it's his life and he can do what he likes. It's just that it is frigging DISGUSTING. I'm sure some of the guys here would like to be in his shoes, but to me his behavior is practically vomit inducing. If he can get better looking girls, why wouldn't he stick to that? He's starting to get a reputation even among the women as being kind of creepy. He seems to be mostly interested in drugs and sex, but hey we were all 18 once.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I definitely went through my Sport F**king stage where I was banging women just because I could.

My friends kinda took the same approach as you, "Iceberg, how could you bang Jenny? She's a skank." Of course, my friends who were judging me, watching from the sidelines weren't getting any. Worst part is, I'm not the bragging type. So their resentment was pure jealousy.

Not that I'm saying you're like that. But as long as this guy's safe, not getting chicks pregnant, and not bringing any drama into his life, I wouldn't care about it. He has a high sex drive. Good for him.

If he can get better looking girls, why wouldn't he stick to that?
I'd prefer a "9" too. But if I were 18 years old, it was 2am, the party's ending and some "6" was throwing vibes at me all night, hell yeah i'd bang her. Maybe the 9's went home. Maybe the 8's came with boyfriends. I'm not gonna deny myself sex because of what the guys might say.

Just because he's banging some 6 on a Friday night doesn't mean he can't pick up an 8 on Saturday. He's an opportunist.

And once again, I'm not saying this about you, because I don't know you. But most of the guys with this "high standards" talk are the ones who are spanking it into Kleenex every night. Not that I don't believe in standards. I just believe that if a guy's standards are so high, and he's bangin all this high-quality tail, he probably doesn't have any time in his life to cast judgment on another guy's method of banging women. But this is a reflection of my own negative experience from jealous, sex-less friends.
 

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the bragging is kinda lame, but that what all teens do...hes trying to get validation for being THE MAN coz he's getting lots of puss. (he is probably getting said validation from many of his peers)
its only in wiser years do we realise that bragging is pointless/stupid.
and of course you're seeing it from an experienced "been there done that" angle so its likely just irratating for you

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But most of the guys with this "high standards" talk are the ones who are spanking it into Kleenex every night. Not that I don't believe in standards. I just believe that if a guy's standards are so high, and he's bangin all this high-quality tail, he probably doesn't have any time in his life to cast judgment on another guy's method of banging women. But this is a reflection of my own negative experience from jealous, sex-less friends.
a guy must get a balance between nice women and actually getting some, we've all gone hogging a few times, nothing wrong with that!
theres guys with "high standards" on this forum who are still virgins...LMAO!
 

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Just because he's banging some 6 on a Friday night doesn't mean he can't pick up an 8 on Saturday. He's an opportunist.
Dude, the issue isn't that he's doing a 6 or some skank. I'm talking about he is doing some women that look like they should be in horror shows. I'm talking about like giving them a 2 would be generous. So no, there is no jealousy involved. I mean, it looks like he will take the 8 when he can get it, but if he can't he'll take the old fat ugly MIWLF (mom I wouldn't like to...). That's what's so disgusting.
 

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Iceberg said:
I definitely went through my Sport F**king stage where I was banging women just because I could.

My friends kinda took the same approach as you, "Iceberg, how could you bang Jenny? She's a skank." Of course, my friends who were judging me, watching from the sidelines weren't getting any. Worst part is, I'm not the bragging type. So their resentment was pure jealousy.

Not that I'm saying you're like that. But as long as this guy's safe, not getting chicks pregnant, and not bringing any drama into his life, I wouldn't care about it. He has a high sex drive. Good for him.



I'd prefer a "9" too. But if I were 18 years old, it was 2am, the party's ending and some "6" was throwing vibes at me all night, hell yeah i'd bang her. Maybe the 9's went home. Maybe the 8's came with boyfriends. I'm not gonna deny myself sex because of what the guys might say.

Just because he's banging some 6 on a Friday night doesn't mean he can't pick up an 8 on Saturday. He's an opportunist.

And once again, I'm not saying this about you, because I don't know you. But most of the guys with this "high standards" talk are the ones who are spanking it into Kleenex every night. Not that I don't believe in standards. I just believe that if a guy's standards are so high, and he's bangin all this high-quality tail, he probably doesn't have any time in his life to cast judgment on another guy's method of banging women. But this is a reflection of my own negative experience from jealous, sex-less friends.
I can personally give testimony about being on the sidelines with the Kleenex in one hand and d1ck in the other. I used to have crazy, unreasonable standards about women (despite my failure to meet them myself) when I was still in college, which eventually turned into desperation once I wasn't meeting as many chicks once I stopped going to school.

Looking back, it was rather foolish, and any of those girls I turned down would be enough to get me off nowadays. Not exactly GF material, but definitely FB status.


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zekko said:
Dude, the issue isn't that he's doing a 6 or some skank. I'm talking about he is doing some women that look like they should be in horror shows. I'm talking about like giving them a 2 would be generous. So no, there is no jealousy involved. I mean, it looks like he will take the 8 when he can get it, but if he can't he'll take the old fat ugly MIWLF (mom I wouldn't like to...). That's what's so disgusting.

I have a friend sorta like this. He doesn't get the 8s, but he sure goes for the 2s. But he seems happy doing what he's doing, which is a lot more than I can say about myself.

Personally, I wouldn't find any (psychological) satisfaction in banging 2s, so I don't bother. Sure, I may be busting my nut, but inside I feel cheap for banging a dog of a woman.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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