Kid asks a question...

[SilverSonnet]

I wanna be popular in school. Simple as.
I was wondering, how do I go about doing this?
Right now, I'm an average guy, who mixes with lots of different groups of people, ranging from cools, to geeks, to boffs, to women, and so on.

I just have a desire to be popular.




From BEN

 

[Axcell]

Tons of tips on this site already that answer your question! Gain social proof by just talking to EVERYBODY. Once you increase your social circle, people will notice: "Hey, that guy has quite a bit of friends and everybody enjoys talking to him... he must be interesting!"

The girls will start to approach you, and you will than be surrounded by many beautiful girls. When other beautiful girls see you with a large amount of girls, they will also start to think: "Wow, all those girls are around that guy... he must be interesting as well!"

It's all a cycle, till you won't be able to keep up with everybody you know.

Just remember these 2 things:
1) CONFIDENCE
2) CHARISMA

... and you will be on your way to a more popular you!
Good luck!

 

[Killer Six Pac]

grow your hair longer

 

[yungahdubz]

You don't really need popularity in my opinion.

I'd be considered moderatly popular in my school cos i hang out with only the cool popular people, but also the people who arent as popular who i enjoy spending time with.

I haven't befriended ALL the popular kids, only some of them. This is cos these guys actually are ****S. I dunno if this goes on in your school, but loadsa kids in mine have started mc'ing and their songs contain lyrics about 'how they're going to shank my mom', these arent the guys i want to associate with, rather the people who are popular for just being themselves and not trying to be a bit of a g-star.

Anyways, how i befriened the popular guys. I just piss around with people all the time during school, always laughing, I can make pretty much anyone laugh. People love someone who can make them laugh, so just improve your sense of humour till everyone finds you funny and you'll have **** loads of frends, popular ones too.

"Make sure you want to hang for the right reasons..that these are really good people you actually like, and you are not just trying to hang to score popularity points... that's just a fast ride to Nowhere." - Senor Fingers

 

[KarmaSutra]

Young Brother, people pay attention to those who lead in word and deed. You should never have the want or need to pay for someone's attention.

Keep making yourself the priority and make sure your progression to a confident, internally motivated man's paramount with each breath and then the student will seek YOU out.

You found me didn't you?

 

[WesCottII]

HA. What happened to letting go?

Follow your own advice. Chasing something usually only makes it dissapear faster.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Is it just me or does already being able to get along with several diverse groups of people mean nothing?

 

[SilverSonnet]

My bad guys, need to stop this train of thought. Ugh. right, I'm the MAN, the great catch!
I'm ALREADY popular and people love me for who I am. So, rock on!

Ben

 

[Groovy]

So much is a man worth as he esteems himself!