"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kicking A Bad Habit Like Weed

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I used to smoke weed pretty much daily for 5 years. I did a "soft" quit when I started grad school (smoked a handful of times in 6 months), then quit for good last fall. I havent looked back since. Weed used to be a big part of my life, like I didnt feel the day was complete unless I wove getting high into there somehow. But I look at it as a closed book now....I had a lot of fun, but i've been there, done that, wrote the book and got the t-shirt, lol.

I have moments when I miss it, but honestly I know my mind and career are better off without it. It makes you slow and dumb, dont kid yourself. It just happens subtly so you dont realize it. Remove yourself from it. Dont hang out with people getting high, dont have any pipes, bongs, or weed in your house. If you do have it near and accessible you'll never stop, it's too tempting.

I also can get drug tested at any time, so I have double reason not to go near it. BUT--even if I wasnt drug-tested, I wouldnt bother. I need to be sharp and clear and not do any further damage to my memory.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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