"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kickboxing

djtdot

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I am thinking of joining an intro kickboxing class in my university for abt 40bux for 8 classes. From my days in the gym I made significant strength gains. Now I think I should improve my cardio. I heard kickboxing helps. Or shd I spend about 25bux and get the tae-bo dvd set with a standup punching bag. Which one will will help me better? I am strong but want to become stronger and also burn of the fat covering me. Or should I join the intro course and after learning the basic moves practise on my own with the punching bag? I am a bit confused. Any help appreciated. Thanks guys :).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dj ben2

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screw tae-bo . kickboxing is a lifelong skill and will help u if u ever get in a fight legs can be alot more deadly then fists
 

MagnuM

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Eskrima pwns kick boxing.

hmm i think i spelled that wrong...oh well
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DarkLight

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I was taking a blend of Eskrima, Muay Thai, and Grappling. BOMB!

Def. take the class.
A DvD doesn't even compare... especially fvckin TaeBo.

Your a man, so learn a martial art.
Let Ashley Simpson wad Billy Blank's pocket.
 
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