Keeping her interest level high

[kamikaze205]

So i'm in a situation where I can't make a move on this girl until the quarter ends (end of December). She's trying to become a part of the same organization that I am in. It would be inappropriate for me to make a move before she's crossed over into membership.

I don't mind waiting since it's not a big deal to me. My original plan was keep things light and not show too much interest. However, one major mistake I made was telling too many people that I had an interest in her. I am fairly certain someone spilled the beans. She has gotten in touch with me and has expressed interest. (Offered phone number, snapchat selfie lol, light texting)

I would normally respond with equal interest and attempt to set up a meetup. But like I said earlier, people would frown upon that. So I responded with light interest and kept the texting short.

How do I keep her interest level high for two months...? I don't want to be texting her for two months without anything happening.
Am I running the risk of losing my chance by seeming to be disinterested?
Should I avoid texting and snapchatting and try to continue things later?

 

[Tomo]

The biggest tip I've learnt here is that one should never mix pleasure with work. If this 'organisation' is work then tread on careful waters as things can come back to bite you.

The most powerful thing one can use is to simply do nothing and disappear and when she does cross over, then you can resume things as is. At the same time the path you trudge, it will culminate or it will eventuate a point or window of opportunity where you are able to ask her out.

Disappear on good terms then when she appears you can resume as is. Leave a good imprint in her mind. The biggest challenge though is you have to leave defined as a guy she'd want to get with; essentially the conundrum where woman upon meeting you decide where you're a friend they'd like to f*ck or a platonic friend.

Go meet other woman, don't place all your eggs in one basket.

 

[kamikaze205]

Thankfully the organization I am referring to is not work related. I came to a similar conclusion last night. Thank you for the sound advice! I will disappear on good terms for now and reappear when things can move forward naturally.