A few weeks ago, I found out one of my friends that's a girl was really into me. I went out alone with her and we kissed. If you think it will help answer the following question, you can read it here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=89151
She is 15 (turning 16 next month). I am 17. In order to not seem desperate I haven't been talking to her too much. It's not like I've been avoiding her, I just don't talk to her as often.
Later on after another date she asked me if I still liked her. I think she believes that I'm losing interest because I didn't try to make a move on her during our second date. The real reason I didn't do anything is because her siblings were home, and i would rather not be interrupted.
I avoided the question of whether or not I liked her or answered it vaguely to keep her guessing.
Now, I can tell this girl is really into me and I was just wondering if I was doing the right thing by not telling her verbally. I can tell she's pretty anxious and stressed over the whole ordeal and I was thinking I would do this:
invite her over next weekend to "talk" about whether I like her. I'll tell her something like "actions speak louder than words", kiss her, and then go from there.
Is that an ok thing to do? Am I being a jerk for acting like I'm not that interested? I still give her very heavy kino and flirt with her all the time, but I guess she just isn't taking the hints.
Either that, or she wants me to actually SAY I like her to feed her ego.
Am I doing this the right way? Am I being too mean about it? Thoughts, suggestions?
Thanks in advance,
John
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=89151
She is 15 (turning 16 next month). I am 17. In order to not seem desperate I haven't been talking to her too much. It's not like I've been avoiding her, I just don't talk to her as often.
Later on after another date she asked me if I still liked her. I think she believes that I'm losing interest because I didn't try to make a move on her during our second date. The real reason I didn't do anything is because her siblings were home, and i would rather not be interrupted.
I avoided the question of whether or not I liked her or answered it vaguely to keep her guessing.
Now, I can tell this girl is really into me and I was just wondering if I was doing the right thing by not telling her verbally. I can tell she's pretty anxious and stressed over the whole ordeal and I was thinking I would do this:
invite her over next weekend to "talk" about whether I like her. I'll tell her something like "actions speak louder than words", kiss her, and then go from there.
Is that an ok thing to do? Am I being a jerk for acting like I'm not that interested? I still give her very heavy kino and flirt with her all the time, but I guess she just isn't taking the hints.
Either that, or she wants me to actually SAY I like her to feed her ego.
Am I doing this the right way? Am I being too mean about it? Thoughts, suggestions?
Thanks in advance,
John
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