"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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No. It's all in the way you say it. You don't just tell them they can't have male friends. You turn it around on them. Ask them if it would be cool if you hung out with a girl.. Or if you we're texting a girl...once they no then you go ahead and say your on the same page. This isn't insecure it is just respecting your significant.

Me personally. I would never date a girl exclusively if she couldn't agree with me on this subject. If I can get a 20 year old saditty model to do this then you can get anyone to do it. If a girl is 100% cooperative she will respect this.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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you get women to do what you want by giving them carrots, not by chasing them with sticks.

women don't think like we do. they aren't any better or worse than we are they are just different. to you, telling a girl look, i want you to do this and not do this, seems perfectly fine way to express how you want something done. And it is, if you were talking to me. but not if you are talking to a 22 year old HB7.5

the way you get a 22YO HB 7.5 to do what you want is by showing her that if she doesn't do what you want, she is not going to keep/get you/be your Gf. this is not something you even have to communicate.

guys seriously this **** is so easy, and you guys make this **** more complicated than it has to be. this is all the plate theory. that's all this **** is. a woman who wants to date you, and you are spinning plates, she will get her own house in order so that she can ut the best foot forward to keep/get you over your other plates. she won;'t like it, she will ***** about tit, but she'll do it 10 out of 10 times if she likes you. this is how you communicate with women. not by threats or telling them to do this or not do this, by demonstrating to them that she needs to do things differently if you want her to commit

the problem with you guys is that you are so damn quick to give up the carrot that when it's time to make a girl do something all you have left are half ass threats and commands.
 
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