"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Keeping Cut with Cast on Arm

Digitz

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What do you guys recommend to do to stay in shape while i have a cast on my left arm.

I dont want to lose a ton of muscle mass, is there anything i can do to keep both arms and my chest strong?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well I will assume - although I shouldn't with some of you guys - that you will train your legs hard anyway. You may have to leave the upper body if the cast restricts you - awkward if you can't grip properly. Personally I wouldnt sweat it, enjoy the break, do some aerobic work. You'll get any upper body condition you had back pretty quick once you can go full bore again.
 

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Make sure you move it if at all possible. After I had knee surgery, I couldn't tighten my thigh muscles at all for about a month. In that month I lost about 3 inches of muscle. Moral of the story...use it as much as safely possible so you can minimize muscle loss.
 

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Sometimes the ludicrousness of some of the questions posted on this board are astounding.

You have a cast on your arm. What the fukk do you expect to do with it on? Unilateral movements so you can create a slight neurological imbalance when your arm finally heals?? Not much... so why worry ?? Training with one arm when you have a temporary incapacity on the other arm is about the stupidest thing you can do. Let your arm heal, dumba$$.

If you have such a hard-on for the gym, then do tons of leg presses and leg curls. Take your cue and rest. You'll probably break whatever plateau you were on when you come back.

There's a beautiful thing called muscle memory. So when you start training again the "tons" of mass you think you're going to lose (which depending on your size won't be more than 3 lbs. tops ) will come right back.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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