"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just for future refernece, how would you prevent scarring?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What type of scaring?
spots,burns,cuts,gashes etc.
More info dude.

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Vitamin E and Aloe Vera.

Get some Vitamin E capsules and pierce it, then squeeze it on your scar and rub it all over it. Get an Aloe Vera plant, cut open a leaf, and scrape out the sticky gel on the inside and rub it on the burn. Also taking the Vitamin E internally helps faster.

Vitamin E helps repair the cells and the Aloe Vera helps also, im not sure how though. Its in a book I got.
 

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Originally posted by Create Reality:
Vitamin E and Aloe Vera.

Get some Vitamin E capsules and pierce it, then squeeze it on your scar and rub it all over it. Get an Aloe Vera plant, cut open a leaf, and scrape out the sticky gel on the inside and rub it on the burn. Also taking the Vitamin E internally helps faster.

Vitamin E helps repair the cells and the Aloe Vera helps also, im not sure how though. Its in a book I got.
Wouldn't it be easier to just buy Vitamin E oil rather than buy capsules and pierce them?
 

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Originally posted by Fred Da Head:
Wouldn't it be easier to just buy Vitamin E oil rather than buy capsules and pierce them?
It would be even easier to get a product containing vit. E AND aloe vera.

Or how about Neosporen for scars.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well us McGuyver types use what we have to get the job done
 

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well im talking about no kind of scaring in perticular, but i hate the idea of getting scars i already have two of those small scratch type ones on my face, i dont want any more.
im gonna get some vit e oil, thx for the advice, im not sure about the aloe vera because im not sure what that it, but ill ask around?

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Aloe vera is like a mosturiser (that my mum uses).

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