Just witnessed something ugly

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Yeah..... at this point people realize that all the fvckboy advize here is not going to help them finding and KEEPING a wife material woman.
I keep being amazed over how much people here say they know about women without having ever been in a LTR that lasted longer then a couple of years.

After 22 years in LTRs(counting) with 5 women(counting?) and studying real world long term couples, i can tell you there is no room for disney romance from your side.

Lets be honest, male is the only romantic gender. Women are just ruthless if you show her your true feelings. As soon as you show a woman you have a weakness for her, she will exploit it to her best abillities and this is also true for LTRs.


There are 3 kinds of women:

1.) The ones you thirst for...... forget those, you will either be their lapdog or they will leave because you arent their lapdog and they can have any lapdog.

2.) The ones that thirst for you but dont pass the boner test...... forget those for obvious reasons.

3.) The ones that thirst for you and pass the boner test...... these are your wife materials.
Due to their genuine desire for you, you can implement the power dynamic so desperately needed for the survival of LTRs.
You need to set the frame for them from the start and make it clear that they are out when they are not compliant, maybe even obediant(submissive?).

You will not get your disney romance with them as they are not the ones you thirst for, BUT you can be relatively sure you keep them in line and have her raise your kids.

Oh.... and most important, even if you are looking for wife material, never ever get married...... because marriage will shift the power dynamic in favour of her and your life will be an uphill battle from there on.


The only way to asure lasting loyalty and compliance from a woman is through dominance, forget disney..... you cant be the prince in shining armor in this world, you need to be Conan the Barbarian.

This is spot on, all of it. Having Conan as a friend is nice, Conan is a good guy and what a prince should be.