"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sammo

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I dedicate my 1000th post to a kick in the ass.

This is something i have noticed about 'naturals'. They TRY so hard. While everyone here talks about the girl they want to bone and techniques required to maximise interest levels the naturals are out there trying with every girl they have slight interest in.

Most of you dont NEED this stuff. You have what it takes! You probably have the looks, confidence, conversation skills, etc. you just need to put in a bit of effort. Once you put in the effort, what you need improvement on becomes apparent. (For most of you - it's not developing interest that needs work, its the skill of isolating and closing). High school girls are hornier then normal - this should be a breeze!

One of the main ways of developing interest in a girl is by first showing interest in her! People here think they dont have the confidence to number close. They do have it! they just havent put in the effort.

It's all about effort.

Thats the mark of an alpha male - he knows what he wants, and he goes after it. No more, no less. You are the direct result of the direction and amount of your effort.

NEVER put all your eggs in one basket. Go out there and get as many prospects as possible.

You want a root? Stop talking to girls who are caught up in the restrictions of society. Get realistic and start talking to some sluts.

You want a gf? Start talking to some wholesome girls.

People need to find out what they WANT and go after it!!

The guys who get roots are the guys who try. The guys who get the grades are the guys who try. The guys who become millionaires are the guys who try.

The more you try, the more you get. It is not rocket science.

Now get out there and make me proud! :cheer:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WesCottII

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Will do Sammo.....Damn oneitis....
 

lavida88

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Very nice post, I have just started to realize this recently on my own
 

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i am sad because i just realized this a couple of days ago...
but finally i get it... i think
lets this what will be the results


btw, great post ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sadly, I haven't ever considered my effort as the reason for my mediocre relationships with girls. But, now that i think of it, i always appear tired, unemotional, and outright bland. I can see why someone wouldn't want to have a conversation with me. Perhaps i'll try to be a bit more energetic and outgoing, which i know i'm capable of. Thanks!
 

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Yes sir Sammo, I will! :up:

Although this is all basic common sense, it was just the lick in the ass that I
(and I suspect the majority of the people on this site) need to jump-start our lives back into gear! :D
 
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