"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just not attracted to women my age, are you?

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OldbutSTRONG

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I'm 36, and I just can't stand women my age. It has nothing to do with a younger woman making me feel younger. Rather it's just a physical thing. I'm attracted to youthful faces. Whenever I see a woman in her thirties or forties it makes me appreciate being single. I know this sounds shallow, but it's so true. Never used to be like this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think it's common for many, many men. Younger women just look better. BTW of course it never used to be like that, you've now hit the age range where women start to generally go down hill. When you were in your 20's the girls your age were also in their 20's.
 
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I'm in my late 40s. This seems brutally unfair, but for the most part I have to say no, I am not attracted to women my age. I won't say none of them, because there are a few here and there (and even older) that are still hot somehow. I think part of it is whether or not they keep themselves in shape, so many of them let themselves go. But even if they're in shape, if they look too old in the face, forget it.

Right now I prefer women in their early thirties. Women in their twenties are hot for sure, but they're a little immature for me now, and frankly we live in such different worlds it's hard to relate to them.

When I was your age I was alright with the women my age, or with women in their 20s.
 
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There's nothing wrong with this and don't let anyone/society tell you otherwise. I read somewhere that generally you want to be dating women around 10yrs younger than you are. For me this made alot of sense, because women my age all seem to be damaged goods; They have been in bad relationships, are single mothers, are looking to get married asap, are used to being in control of everything so its hard for them to submit to a man. Then there are those ones who have been sluts from 17 to 27 and are now trying to snag a "good man".

So i feel no remorse at all about dating women 18 - 26yrs old. At the younger end of that range they have to be mature for their age though.
 
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